Ways To Make Your Woman Happy

Do you want to be the perfect guy for your girlfriend? Do you want to give your girlfriend every reason to believe that you're the Mr. Right she's been looking for, without changing yourself? If you treat your lady wonderfully, you'll get the same back from her. Isn't that what every guy wants?follow these steps»» (1) Show her affection. Girls want guys to show them affection because it tells her that you care about her, and that you're willing to show that love in a public way. It doesn't always have to be public but get used to the idea, because she wants other people to see how much you love her, so don't be afraid to kiss her or hold her hand in public. (2) Tell her you love her. Make sure you mean it. If you're not ready to go there yet, that's fine. But, be sure to switch that "I love you" for a really good "You know how special you are to me?" or a "I like you so much; I'm a really lucky guy." (3) Touch her regularly and on the spur of the moment. Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Make sure it's a respectful and gentle touch, and not one that's overly sexual or suggestive. (4) Put her first, yourself second. Put her needs in front of yours. This doesn't mean that you have to be whipped, or lose your backbone. It just means that, most of the time, you're willing to bend for her, even if it wasn't something you wanted to do. (5) Provide security. Again we think that the most important thing for a woman is that she feels financially secure. That's why you do your best to provide for her. That's awfully nice of you, but you may be barking up a wrong tree. What she really wants much more than "money and things" is emotional security. This means that she can count on you to always be there for her and that she can count on you to be her best friend. (6) Be a Good Listener. you listen to problems and look for solutions, you also listen to the point of the conversation. You have no patience to listen to a chronological unfolding of a story without knowing were it is going. As soon as your loved one tells us that she has a problem, you are thinking how to fix it. Wrong! Your woman is quite able most of the time to fix the problem herself. If she cannot she will ask you for help. You need to trust that. What she wants from you is to listen to her and acknowledge how she feels about it, because her feelings are the problem that she needs to communicate to you. (7) Remember women can feel differently about sex. When your woman does not want to have sex with you, you take it personally. Once you understand that woman's "warm-up time" is much longer than yours and that she needs to be forewarned so that she can anticipate it, things become much easier. It's not about you. Very often she just wants to be close to you, to snuggle and be cuddled. Of course, whenever that happens you think about sex. Hold your horses, not so fast! It DOES NOT mean that she wants sex. If you insist on it every time she comes close to you, she will start avoiding you. You scare her off. Take it easy, take your time. Once she gets into it, she WILL enjoy it as much, or maybe even more than you do, but patience is an operative word. (8) Admire her beauty. A woman asks a man: "Does this dress make me look fat?" Man: "No, your fat makes you look fat." Bad move. That's how you can talk to other man friends and not to a woman, because women are different species. They will never interpret it as a joke, or just take it as plain truth. Remember, it's all about feelings. Women want us to find them attractive. They want to be looked at and we, men want to look. Perfect match! She has a deep need to know that she is beautiful for YOU. When she asks you how she looks do not say, just fine. Cultural pressure to look beautiful is great and it can hardly be avoided. So, tell her often and honestly that she is beautiful. You do not have to use exactly that word, but there are so many others and other ways to say the same thing. Be creative. Come on man be romantic! *wink*