Ways To Make Your Man Happy

(1) Know when to back off. Many a wayward girlfriend assumes her affectionate attention is welcomed by her man until he asks for a little space. The problem with this theory is that when a man is forced to fight for his alone time, he can become jealously defensive of it and resent his girlfriend. Guys like to know their girls have lives of their own, so schedule time for yourself, away from him, with your girlfriends, etc. (2) On that note, be sure to remain your own person. It is vital in every relationship to not define yourself in terms of your significant other. Get a few hobbies. Better yet, join a club. Once again, girls with lives are almost always more attractive than those whose lives consist only of time with their boyfriends. (3) Convey yourself to your man. Instead of holding in your emotions and thoughts about your man's actions and words, just tell him calmly and not aggressively. He'll appreciate this MUCH more than he would if you kept your thoughts to yourself and used them against him later. Contrary to popular belief, men are not mind readers--so tell them what's going on! (4) Don't lie to your guy about where you are going, or what you are thinking of. If he asks you, he wants to know--so tell him. Use discretion (don't tell him you were thinking about that one thing your ex used to do in bed), but if you just brush it off with a light "nothing" or say something that's obviously a lie, you'll only drive him crazy, and not the good kind of crazy. (5) Finally, don't think about withholding sex. You should to surprise you man and keep things "alive" in the bedroom...keeping the chemistry alive will definitely keep your man happy! (6) Do not call him more than once a day if you don't have something important to discuss or talk about. I know, the phone begins to whisper to you after a while, telling you that he may be doing something he wants to talk to you about, but you must resist temptation. He needs to feel as though he isn't on a leash, that he can do things without informing you if he so chooses. Calling him on a daily basis establishes you as controlling, nosy, and, worst of all, clingy. REMEMBER:- When arguments occur, do not take an air of authority, superiority, or antagonism. Listen to his points and calmly, with no sign of your inner annoyance, make your rebuttal. Not only with this help to diminish squabbles, but he'll be more likely to concede future arguments to you, knowing that you won't rub his face in defeat. Always tell your man you love him,this will make him happy. Don't try to hug and kiss all over your man all the time. Some and most men find this annoying,hey need their space in many ways. Men do like it when their women look good. You don't have to do anything drastic; get a new hairstyle every now and then and look for his reaction, buy a dress if you know he likes them. Guys are oblivious to the obvious sometimes though, so don't take it to heart if he doesn't notice right away. Do not use cuddly nicknames when anyone else is in earshot, even strangers. I know he's your "pooky bear" when you're alone in your living room, but as far as the rest of the world is concerned call him by his name. Don't assume that you're welcome to hang around your man as he works, studies, or pursues his hobbies at home. Everyone needs to concentrate, and women are generally a negative force on a man's ability to focus. It doesn't. matter if you don't make a sound. They can smell you.