Friday, January 3, 2014
Wanna Be The Perfect Girlfriend? Read How »
Being a good girlfriend can be tricky, especially at the beginning of a relationship. But whether you and your new boyfriend are still feeling each other out, or if you're approaching your five-year anniversary, there are still a number of tips to follow if you want to be a good girlfriend and to make your relationship thrive. To be a good girlfriend, you have to be loving and supportive while maintaining your independence.
Don't be too open at first. Easing into a relationship is about ensuring that there is plenty of space for the two of you to get to know one another and trust that you're right for one another. If you try too soon to "make" something more out of your relationship than it already is, premature pushiness can scare him away and spoil what is 'there' to be a good thing. Instead, be patient and realize that it takes time to nurture a solid and enduring relationship and While they say a way to a man's heart is through his stomach, this doesn't mean cooking him a three-course meal on the first date. You don't need to prove anything like this; you simply need to be present and engaged in listening, being attentive and sharing your interests. You also have to be honest with him,lying won't get you any close to perfection darling,it is equally important that you are honest with yourself. If you overreact or make a mistake,let down that ego sweetheart acknowledge your error and apologize. If you're feeling vulnerable or upset, you can sort through your feelings and talk them through with him in a peaceful manner.
And the most important thing here is that you will be open about your feelings as much as possible. If he does or says something that bothers you, be open about how it affects you, without being rude or asking him to change. Dearie be yourself,don't create a fake you just to impress him.Take an interest in his interests, Remember what he likes to do and what he likes to talk about. You don't have to act like you love his hobbies, but at least try to understand why he's such a fan of "that". Keep your relationship strong by bringing variety and diversity into the relationship. Try different and new things together. Relationships are about having fun together, learning together and growing together.Compliment him more than you criticize him,If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he won't look forward to seeing you and he'll start reconsidering being with you.Learn to compromise. If you want to be a good girlfriend, then you have to learn to compromise instead of fighting or being angry the second you don't get your way and darling please give him some space,yes i get,you always want to be around him right?yea its a good thing but sweetheart show him you have your own thing to do and not idle and jobless okay?Be affectionate,there are various ways to show your affection; some are more obvious than others and the way you approach this will depend on how openly affectionate you like to be personally. Finally girlfriend, don't wear jealousy all over you,show him you trust him and give your relationship some respect. Be the best girlfriend you can be okay? Xo!