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Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Things To Consider Before Seriously Dating Someone

*(Faith and/or value system Compatible values are essential in developing a healthy relationship. Discuss faith systems, both those from childhood and any current beliefs. What does he value most in life? Does she pray?What does happiness look like to your date? What factors does she evaluate when trying to make tough decisions? )* *(Physical expectations If you’re ready to have sex after date ten and your date is waiting for an “I love you” first, or maybe even marriage and then things will get awkward if these physical-relationship expectations aren’t outlined before one of you rejects the other. As awkward as these conversations may be, negotiate appropriate boundaries early on. Some relationships can’t withstand differing views on physical contact, so discuss this early and often)* *(Definition of relationship Sure, you’re having a great time together a few times a month, but do you really know where you stand, relationship-wise? Is one of you hoping it will turn into marriage and kids while the other is commitment-phobic and enjoys seeing more than one person at a time? After a few dates, sit down to discuss your thoughts on relationships, commitment, and how you’d define where you currently are and where you might be headed,that's how you can tell your partners mind about the relationship)* *(Conflict-resolving skills It can be hard to assess how someone deals with conflict until you’ve had your first fight, but discussing previous conflicts and their subsequent resolutions can help you both understand how each of you deals with arguments. When you do have your first fight, debrief after it. Was your partner aggressive? Was he quick to apologize? To walk out the door? Did she respond to conflict with insecurity? With cruelty? As conflict is an unavoidable part of life, discovering how your date deals with it is an important part of getting to know him/her better,if he's violent...then um...you gotta em..well take your decision)* *(Money matters Is your date a spender or a saver? Is the pursuit of wealth important to her? Does he aspire to living well below his means, giving most of his income away to charity? How does your date make decisions regarding big-ticket items? Money and sex are two driving forces behind divorce. Be transparent about your own spending habits and talk about your respective relationships with money.)* *(Dreams and goals Are you heading in the same direction? Can you become your partner’s greatest cheerleader and champion? Ask about your date’s dreams for his/her future. Does she have a five-year plan for herself? Does he secretly dream of starting his own business? Is parenthood, financial success, creative pursuits or travel on the wish list? When you’re dating someone, you’re both determining whether or not you fit into one another’s presents and futures. Sharing dreams and goals can better help you assess if you can partner with each other in a way that enables you both to thrive,you should know if you both are headed same way or opposite ways hun)* If you want a happy relationship,try finding out these things before it gets too late to turn back unhurt.. Xoxo: Bella

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Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year darlings! Welcome to 2014 another year of unimaginable blessings.. Thank God we made it congratulations to everyone who made it into 2014 God bless you for being here... WELCOME

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year darlings! Welcome to 2014 another year of unimaginable blessings.. Thank God we made it congratulations to everyone who made it into 2014 God bless you for being here... WELCOME

Thank You To All My Blog Readers

To all my readers thanks a million,i created this blog because i wanted to share my thoughts and knowledge with everyone when ever i should,and you took it upon yourself to read my articles when ever i share them and also send e-mails,it feels indeed wonderful to have amazing readers like you all through the year,may God take charge of every situation in your life and make your whole life as a human successful,blessed and awesome. Once again thanks for being here,let's do again in 2014«» wish you a prosperous new year! Sign:Queenbella

Monday, December 23, 2013

Queen Nwokoye Goes Back To School In New Movie "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL"

PRESSING FORWARD MOVIES presents this hilarious but educating flick "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL" this is another opportunity to watch the actress Queen Nwokoye drop some hilarious bombs all in the name of speaking english. Its fun and interesting,i personally recommend you grab of copy and laugh your a** out this christmas, after all this is a season of fun and more fun right? Yea have a happy Holidays!