INTIMACY: this doesn't necessarily means sex(although its part of it)it could be easier like,holding hands while walking down the street,quick kiss,squeezing of shoulders. In every marriage there should be a deep intimacy,the couple should have intimate knowledge about each other.
ROMANCE: you don't need a date night or special occasions to feel romantic,that feeling should exist each time you behold your spouse and that feeling should also be kept alive because the couple proof to themselves that they still sexually attracted to each other even after years of marriage, so instead of watching the Tv and eating alone,put on some good music,light candles call your partner to join you and you both eat together.
MAKE OUT TIME TO TALK:Talking about anything and everything – your past, your future, your families – is one of the best parts about the early stages of a relationship, but eventually that need to talk for hours at a time starts to wear off. That doesn't mean disaster, but it does mean you have to start putting more effort into finding time to really talk. Long days, stress at work and any other number of issues can start to get in the way of meaningful conversations with your man, but if you want your love to last, you need to find time to talk.Instead of watching TV all evening,spare yourselves atleast 20/30 minutes to catch up on each others lives, discuss the day and how it went,talk about countries you'll love to visit and all that, just to keep the conversation going.
SUPPORT EACH OTHER
Making time to support each other in everything you do is a key aspect of keeping your relationship on track and thriving. Does your man play a sport? Go watch at least one game a month. Did he get a raise or promotion recently? Help him celebrate his accomplishment. The more you can do to show each other that you care about what's going on in your lives outside the relationship, the stronger your bond will grow. If you've got something significant coming up (a big race, family event, etc.) encourage him to join you or cheer you on. He may not realize you want him there, so make him understand.
INVOLVING GOD: you should have a perfect understanding on certain things like religion,there's freedom of worship but when people are married they become one so they should be able to decide who to worship and where to worship,always pray together,study the bible,do not forget God is the foundation of every marriage.
Try these tips and make sure you keep the love alive. Goodluck!
-QB
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