Tuesday, July 2, 2013
Dealing With a Cheating Girlfriend
Having to cope with a cheating girlfriend may be extremely bad for your confidence. You feel abandoned,useless and you have low self-esteem. It is a very sensitive situation and here is a guide to deal with the cheating girlfriend.
Make sure she is cheating on you. Follow her if possible.
Trust your instincts.
Ask friends.
Observe the way she behaves.
Is she a little bit more friendly? Or flirty? Check this out.
Talk with her and ask her. If she replies with something like that: Oh my dear, would I ever cheat on a boyfriend like you? There is no one like you. I love only you then she is 97% cheating on you.
Ask a friend, or a relative for advice. What would they do if it happened to them? What advice would you give them?
Discuss with her. If you are a boyfriend who has been next to her through difficult and happy times and she treats you this way then you don't deserve a person like her.
Discuss about the future. As you see, is she willing to change? Are you willing to forgive her? Do you think this relationship could continue after this "episode" ? These are just some questions to ask yourself and talk about them with your cheating girlfriend.
If you have both done mistakes in this relationship then decide either to break up or to apologize to each other and start over this relationship.
If she has cheated on you with your best friend, brother or anyone person you are close to then talk with both of them. Try to make up with the other person and just let that girl go.
NOTE:
Be smart at each conversation.
Make sure she is cheating on you before you take a stand.
Don't be harsh.
Don't be extremely jealous after you find out.
Always stay calm no matter the outcome.
-Gracias por leer!