Learning to Love a Woman the Right Way

If you are in an established relationship but feel that you may have dropped the ball somewhere along the way, more than likely your woman is feeling the effects of your actions towards her and the relationship. It is said that women are emotional creatures by nature. The moment your woman begins to feel uneasy, and insecure about where this relationship is headed and how you feel about her, it is at that point you must let her know just how much you love her. Now maybe you don’t know how be as forward with expressing your love for her the same way that she does to you. However, if this is a woman you truly want to be with, then it’s time to re-evaluate your situation, learn how to reciprocate her love and work towards building a healthy long-lasting loving relationship. First you need to think about your goals, priorities and the kind of man you already are (or want to become), and the kind of woman you really need to be apart of your life. Nobody is perfect, but often times men don’t do any self-reflecting. The only way to love a woman the right way is to change the way you think and feel about yourself in certain situations. Women love attention. A woman wants to be able to express her thoughts, feelings, dreams and worries to you without fear of condemnation or worse, being ignored. When she talks to you it’s not because she necessarily wants you to find a solution or fix the issues she discusses with you. Just being able to acknowledge her feelings and offer your emotional support all that is needed. This is why communication is a key. Talk to your woman. Let her know that you are listening. Once a woman sees that you are expressing interest in what she has to say she will more than likely reciprocate the very same feelings towards you. When you give your attention to her, you instill a feeling of worthiness. Women love a man who exudes a positive attitude and energy. Any person who can align their thoughts, words and actions without getting upset is someone who is strong in mind and heart. Walking around with a chip on your shoulder getting upset at every single perceived slight, and believing that the world has something against you is very negative. You cannot have this kind of personality or attitude and expect to be deserving of a good woman. It won’t happen. But striving to be a man of good character will attract a woman who will not only enhance your life, but a woman who will build you up and love you unconditionally. Together you will create a relationship that generates positive feelings for each other. Always respect a woman. Your life will be blessed in accordance to the amount of respect and honor you show a woman. It will not only show her, but others around you such as friends and family, that you know how to value your relationships. Compliments and small acts of kindness can go a very long way. Romance doesn’t always necessarily have to include roses, exotic travel and love making. But can mean helping your woman out or making thoughtful gestures before she asks you to.  Make Her Feel Secure, Having a sense of security is the base of every relationship. Every woman wants a man who will make her feel protected. A man who will be there during all times, not just the when everything is going well. A sense of security is instilled in a woman when you show her that if there is ever anything she needs, even if it’s just a listening ear you will be there for her. This aint no hell of a deal is it? NOPE,says who? Says me BELLA *wink*