What Would You Do?

Thanks my blog readers for your contributions and e-mails,i get em all and i'm sure i don't leave any one un-replied. This is a short story with a questions,and as usual your e-mails will be appreciated and replied. This girl(name withheld) happened to be recuperating from a bad relationship with lots of dis respects and hurts by a man she loved, circumstances made her swiftly swing into another affair hoping to feel better and nothing more but then this passionate likeness took her by surprise as she became a friend,you can use the word lover to some guy (name withheld),could it be love again so soon? She didn't want to give in cos she loved the other guy so much and you know love doesn't just die like that, Anyways slow down.. This girl happens to be a self-willed chic who believes in getting her own stuff and being independent but that doesn't mean she doesn't accept loving gestures though,first you must know this girl isn't materialistic and cannot be wooed by anything under that category and so she rejects a toyota avalon from the new friend. (Question 1) was that a wrong thing? Back to the story,he showed her the much needed respect,men will always be men and hey did someone just say cheats? Aw.. Nah i meant to say polygamous in Nature, (Question 2) must men be polygamous? Back to the story,but one thing he never did was to take certain calls in her face,or speak to her rudely,he'd rather put off his phone or keep calm,you know we women can talk!if you ask me that's "respect" or isn't it? He was soft and sweet with words and you know women like sweet romantic words like "i'm not a perfect man,i've never been but all i want to do is make you perfectly happy" or "seeing you happy everyday makes me feel fulfilled" or "what ever hurts you must have felt just put the blame on me,i'll take it all" I could go on and on with what he said or says to her but i'll put a stop for now,all that didn't just change her feelings for "the other guy" who had decided to take a break from their relationship,and everyday she'd remember the first day they made love and the promises he had made to her,only to have changed into a total stranger, so were they all lies? eww.. but the truth is he was the first man who had made love to her in the entire world so it was very natural to keep reminiscing..#naughty+she loved him and maybe still does but doubts cos its a confused feeling and it might be said she's inlove with two men,eww.. That's slutty! Well.. she still loved him sincerely but he disrespected her in different ways, (Question3) do you think its wrong to speak to a girl who isn't a mutual friend with your girlfriend for a long time in your girlfriend's presence? And at the end you're un apologetic?well women can do that too only when they're angry and maybe want to get back at their men,right girls? well.. She loved him still and as weeks wentby softly the breeze of change began to blow her feelings and heal the heart of its little scratch. Finally,her new friend/lover decided to take their relationship to a higher level when he asked her to marry him in an open party(public),hold on and let me tell you, this girl wasn't really ready for the marriage thingy at least not yet but maybe soon but couldn't turn down his proposal even though she has done that before lol,she accepted it and boom! She wanted to give it a shot,they had even planned a vacation tour in the Caribbean but a night mare resurfaced,hmm my people the cousin to her fiance' was the same guy among the many guys who raped her back in school,story changed, and the girl changed her mind about the marriage but has no rest because her fiance wouldn't let her go,keeps pleading and asking her to forgive, day in day out. I can't begin to narrate it all on this episode,but the big question is (what would you do if you were the girl) (would you revenge) (call off the engagement) or (go ahead)???? Send us an e-mail with your answers as usual ---Gracias Por Leer!