Friday, September 20, 2013

How to Earn a Girl's Trust Back After Lying

Earning a girl's trust back after lying won't be easy. Whether you lied about spending time with another girl, about cheating on her, or about something else entirely that truly hurt her feelings, it'll be hard to get your girl to trust you and to have faith in you again,yes i said hard, but not impossible. If you're willing to be honest with the girl, to give her time and space, and to avoid lying in the future, then you can slowly, but surely, begin to win the girl's trust back along with her heart. So how do you do it? Just follow these steps. (1) Apologize. If you want to earn a girl's trust back, the very first thing you should do is to apologize sincerely about lying and hurting her. Let her know that you understand how difficult you have made things for her, and that you deeply regret what you've done. (2) Be honest about why you lied. You don't have to go in too much graphic detail if you think it'll only hurt her more, but you should be honest about why you told the lie. Maybe you wanted to protect her, maybe you knew that the truth would hurt her, or maybe you were even embarrassed about the truth and wanted to cover it up. Whatever your reason, let her know why you did it (3) Promise it will never happen again -- and mean it. First, you have to make sure that it really won't happen again. If you doubt yourself or your future self and think you may make the same mistake, then spare the girl and work on fixing yourself before you get entangled with anyone else. If you don't think that you should be trusted, then why should anyone else disagree? Once you're certain that it won't happen again, then you should promise her that you're determined not to repeat your mistakes. (4) Promise you'll change. Tell her that you're going to work on becoming a better, more complete person who wouldn't lie to her. Be open about the fact that you know that this is a process and that you won't change overnight, but let her know that you're willing to try to change for her.