Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Ah LOYALIST from DjKaywise ft Iyanya omg help! i cant stop dancing

Uh..i noticed i've been dancing uncontrollably all day so i checked again and i realized i've been dancing to this very jam from Naija's finest DjKaywise ft the pop sensation Iyanya hmm ya'll know i love to share but emm.. I actually cant share the link on here cause my site is having some technical issues so if you wanna download LOYALIST and need the link,go ff @DjKaywise on twitter and kindly ask for the link..jeez! Its so #Epic, feel free download and have fun dancing like i'm doing,thank me later.. muah!.................Gracias Por Leer!

Its LOYALIST! from DjKaywise ft Iyanya omg help! i cant stop dancing

Like seriously this jam got me dancing all day,So i wanna share..jeez! Its so #epic its from our very finest Dj/Vj Kaywise and guess who he featured on it? Our very own Pop sensation Iyanya and its titled LOYALIST like always,i appreciate good music so i'm appreciating this piece right here,feel free download and have fun muah!.................QueenBella recommends

The very Best of life's advice and Best of relationship advice

There's this one quote which can pass as the best advice in our everyday lives and also in our relationships,can you guess?........... .............here it is "DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU'LL HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU" does it actually explain anything to you? Let me make it clear, in life if you want the best and good for yourself you have to give your best to others and also be good to them and then everything naturally returns to you. And in your relationship aspect, if you cheat on your partner or do something really terrible and expect your love life to be awesome you're a joker cause what you have done to that person will likewise be done unto you by someone else you care about or will care about in the future..so if you want to avoid karma's visit,stick to this quote and favorite it............Gracias Por Leer!

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Things You Shouldn't Say On A First Date

Ok now let's talk about this,I am friends with a nice variety of people, straight men and women and what I've learned from speaking with friends is this:- everyone is insane.The thing is, you have to meet someone for a while to really know the level of insanity you are about to experience while in a relationship with that person. It is OK. We are all crazy, so it is just all about finding out what type of insanity you enjoy being around the most but what I can't understand is how and why so many people are spilling their guts about everything on the first date. It is fine to be nuts. Obviously I've already established we all are looney anyway. At least be polite about it on the first date. You should ease into your craziness. If you break out with some stories that are too frightening on the first date, you will scare your potential new partner away. Basically, some of you are saying stuff on the first date you should keep to yourself. Now let me give you a clue of the kinda things you shouldn't spill on a first date,am sure you're eager to know.. *wink* Don't say this(✗)--I've taken out several restraining orders on exes. I just seem to have bad luck!*)* Don't say this(✗)My exes always seem to take out restraining orders on me,I just don't understand,i just like to stay in touch.*)* Don't say this(✗)I can fart to the tune of "personally" by Psquare, Do you want to hear it?*)* Don't say this (✗)I keep several exotic pets at my home,you should meet my skunk named rile, To be honest, i seem to have lost my squirrel at home somewhere. I am just hoping if he passed away, I will smell the dead body and find him soon*)* Don't say this(✗)My child has the tendency to throw temper tantrums a lot. He might try to hurt you when you first meet him, but don't worry, his therapist says he is OK to be around new people again.*)* Don't say this(✗)I feel like this first date is going so well, i can definitely hear wedding bells in our future!*)* Don't say this(✗)I make the best sauce in the world shrimps, Do you want to come over for dinner Friday night?*)* Don't say this(✗)My father is very overprotective of me, he likes to threaten my new friends with guns,don't worry it is usually not loaded. I mean, there was this one incident, but after he spent time in jail he really learned his lesson.*)* Don't say this(✗)I have this weird pimple on my back. I am hoping if all goes well tonight, you can pop it for me.*)* Don't say this(✗)Don't look now, but I see my ex at the table across the room. I want to tell you everything about that relationship now,I feel like I can trust you since this first hour has gone so well.*)* Don't say this(✗)I tend to get really blackout drunk and do ridiculous things wherever I go,Can I get another drink over here?*)* Don't say this (✗)basically, I just went out with you because it sounds like you make a lot of money,i am definitely ordering the lobster tonight.*)* Don't say this(✗)I still live with my ex, but we don't sleep in the same room or anything most of the time,our lease is up in 6 months i hope that won't be a problem. Arrrrrrghhh!!! Can you hear yourself talk??? You better not spill these craps on a first date or else you lost that partner,give yourself sometime before spilling what ever it is..don't talk too much not everyone loves a talkative hun?aha..thank me later!

Sunday, January 5, 2014

How Often Do You Pray?

So this is becoming a serious issue to ponder upon,i recently ran into this friend who complained she was having issues, to me they sounded minor but you know the saying "he who wears a shoe knows where it hurts" so i agreed it was indeed an issue for her and then i asked her if she's been praying about it and she said "pray?what has prayer got to do with this"? I was amazed at how much she de-values prayer so i felt i should ask you too how often you pray. Send your answers via e-mail and i'll share them.

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Wanna Keep Love Alive In Your Relationship? Learn How»

Want a love-filled relationship..? Do you want love decorating your relationship for a long time? Then you should also know the right steps to take in making that happen, how often do you PRAISE him/her?Praise is such a great gift, and it's so easy to give so look at the things that make your spouse and others unique and develop the habit of praising them for those special things. Now, "Don't go into it alone" Welcome fresh insights of other perspectives from your partner,don't act like you know it all and by so doing making your spouse feel they're too daft to learn from. Do you know that in a mutually satisfying relationship, both people's needs are expressed, and they have the flexibility to give and take? Practice it. Also take the honor of doing worthwhile things for you spouse,to show them how valuable they are to you. Please sweethearts don't stop loving,let the love be more than the wrongs and things will keep getting better. Remember,Anger is your choice, we can choose to see its powerful potential for destruction and take steps to reduce it within us. Otherwise, it's and iceberg sinking our love, forgive and continue in one love. If you want a long lasting relationship filled with love then you ought to have a better understanding of the motivations and actions that grow out of our basic personalities,this can help us achieve personal and marital satisfaction,understand the reasons behind your spouse's action and sort them out. Don't be too fast in misunderstanding your spouse it could ruin things for you. Lastly,Sharing deep feelings with each other is an emotional intercourse and it's vital in a relationship,don't leave the sexual satisfaction out of your marriage/relationship. Not all relationships are based on sexual satisfaction but for those who do,well..be good at it. Xo!

Hooray!Happy Birthday To Nollywood Actor Bobby Blaise

Hooray! Its a celebrity's birthday today,happy birthday to Nollywood's cute and award winning actor Bobby Blaise as he celebrates his 25th birthday today. Bobby is a cool and very down to earth guy,who hails from Imo State incase you're a little skeptical,bobby lives each moment like its the very last but not recklessly. (*)HOBBIES: loves the gym,loves playing games,traveling,reading books and lover of sports.. Ladies you mind? Lol,have a blast bobby! From my team we say God has only begun with you,the best is yet to come. Happy birthday! Xo

Friday, January 3, 2014

8 Types Of Women That Men Don't Wanna Marry »are you one? Find out here

(Miss "Bossy Pants)": This woman usually can't help herself; she has bossy in her DNA. When a man first meets her, he might think this character trait is cute, for awhile. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his second grade teacher, he will give this woman her walking papers that's "goodbye".* (Miss "Playing Games With His Heart"): This woman thinks that being a game player will help her land a man. However, even though a man might be intrigued by a hard to get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straightshooter. If this woman doesn't remove Battleship from her repertoire quite quickly, she will be shown the door before she can even sink his vessel.* (Miss "I Want To Change You)": This woman is lurking everywhere. She is the type of woman many men are the most leery of. (Of course, there are some men who love this woman because of their own insecurities.) She claims that she loves her guy just the way he is, but little by little, she chips away at just about everything about him. First, it's his wardrobe, then it's his taste in music. However, when she gets to his friends and his hobbies, she is usually kicked to the curb*. (Miss "Suspiciously Jealous)": This woman is on edge all the time because she is very distrusting. Many times, she has been burnt in the past, so she is on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets this woman, he sees her as a damsel in distress and wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice to leave her because he can't go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else's crimes.* (Miss "I Live For You And I Have Nothing Else Going On)": This woman is very difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered that she is so into him, but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by her. As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not just waiting by the door for him to come home,get busy!* (Miss "I Speak To My Mother Five Times A Day About Everything)": This woman has her mother on speed dial and can't seem to make a decision or do anything without getting her opinion. When a guy first meets her, he thinks it's nice that she is so close to her family, but soon, he finds it to be way too much and the he gets sick of it and trust me when he gets sick of it? He gets so sick of having you as a girlfriend* (Miss "Keeping Up With The everything"): This woman needs to be at least as good as everyone else she knows. She is constantly talking about what the other people do and what the other people have. This places a lot of undue pressure on her guy and eventually, he gets so so so sick!* (Miss " I hate this and i hate that)"; Oh this woman complains about everything,men call it nagging! She nags even the shirt you wear,trust me girlfriend that man will so throw you outta the window one day cause your constant nagging is beginning to give him a migraine.* Trust me girl, most men just want a happy and easy going woman who has good values, so just focus on putting the best YOU out there and you're on your way to becoming his dearly beloved bride. Xo!

Wanna Be The Perfect Girlfriend? Read How »

Being a good girlfriend can be tricky, especially at the beginning of a relationship. But whether you and your new boyfriend are still feeling each other out, or if you're approaching your five-year anniversary, there are still a number of tips to follow if you want to be a good girlfriend and to make your relationship thrive. To be a good girlfriend, you have to be loving and supportive while maintaining your independence. Don't be too open at first. Easing into a relationship is about ensuring that there is plenty of space for the two of you to get to know one another and trust that you're right for one another. If you try too soon to "make" something more out of your relationship than it already is, premature pushiness can scare him away and spoil what is 'there' to be a good thing. Instead, be patient and realize that it takes time to nurture a solid and enduring relationship and While they say a way to a man's heart is through his stomach, this doesn't mean cooking him a three-course meal on the first date. You don't need to prove anything like this; you simply need to be present and engaged in listening, being attentive and sharing your interests. You also have to be honest with him,lying won't get you any close to perfection darling,it is equally important that you are honest with yourself. If you overreact or make a mistake,let down that ego sweetheart acknowledge your error and apologize. If you're feeling vulnerable or upset, you can sort through your feelings and talk them through with him in a peaceful manner. And the most important thing here is that you will be open about your feelings as much as possible. If he does or says something that bothers you, be open about how it affects you, without being rude or asking him to change. Dearie be yourself,don't create a fake you just to impress him.Take an interest in his interests, Remember what he likes to do and what he likes to talk about. You don't have to act like you love his hobbies, but at least try to understand why he's such a fan of "that". Keep your relationship strong by bringing variety and diversity into the relationship. Try different and new things together. Relationships are about having fun together, learning together and growing together.Compliment him more than you criticize him,If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he won't look forward to seeing you and he'll start reconsidering being with you.Learn to compromise. If you want to be a good girlfriend, then you have to learn to compromise instead of fighting or being angry the second you don't get your way and darling please give him some space,yes i get,you always want to be around him right?yea its a good thing but sweetheart show him you have your own thing to do and not idle and jobless okay?Be affectionate,there are various ways to show your affection; some are more obvious than others and the way you approach this will depend on how openly affectionate you like to be personally. Finally girlfriend, don't wear jealousy all over you,show him you trust him and give your relationship some respect. Be the best girlfriend you can be okay? Xo!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Things To Consider Before Seriously Dating Someone

*(Faith and/or value system Compatible values are essential in developing a healthy relationship. Discuss faith systems, both those from childhood and any current beliefs. What does he value most in life? Does she pray?What does happiness look like to your date? What factors does she evaluate when trying to make tough decisions? )* *(Physical expectations If you’re ready to have sex after date ten and your date is waiting for an “I love you” first, or maybe even marriage and then things will get awkward if these physical-relationship expectations aren’t outlined before one of you rejects the other. As awkward as these conversations may be, negotiate appropriate boundaries early on. Some relationships can’t withstand differing views on physical contact, so discuss this early and often)* *(Definition of relationship Sure, you’re having a great time together a few times a month, but do you really know where you stand, relationship-wise? Is one of you hoping it will turn into marriage and kids while the other is commitment-phobic and enjoys seeing more than one person at a time? After a few dates, sit down to discuss your thoughts on relationships, commitment, and how you’d define where you currently are and where you might be headed,that's how you can tell your partners mind about the relationship)* *(Conflict-resolving skills It can be hard to assess how someone deals with conflict until you’ve had your first fight, but discussing previous conflicts and their subsequent resolutions can help you both understand how each of you deals with arguments. When you do have your first fight, debrief after it. Was your partner aggressive? Was he quick to apologize? To walk out the door? Did she respond to conflict with insecurity? With cruelty? As conflict is an unavoidable part of life, discovering how your date deals with it is an important part of getting to know him/her better,if he's violent...then um...you gotta em..well take your decision)* *(Money matters Is your date a spender or a saver? Is the pursuit of wealth important to her? Does he aspire to living well below his means, giving most of his income away to charity? How does your date make decisions regarding big-ticket items? Money and sex are two driving forces behind divorce. Be transparent about your own spending habits and talk about your respective relationships with money.)* *(Dreams and goals Are you heading in the same direction? Can you become your partner’s greatest cheerleader and champion? Ask about your date’s dreams for his/her future. Does she have a five-year plan for herself? Does he secretly dream of starting his own business? Is parenthood, financial success, creative pursuits or travel on the wish list? When you’re dating someone, you’re both determining whether or not you fit into one another’s presents and futures. Sharing dreams and goals can better help you assess if you can partner with each other in a way that enables you both to thrive,you should know if you both are headed same way or opposite ways hun)* If you want a happy relationship,try finding out these things before it gets too late to turn back unhurt.. Xoxo: Bella
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Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year darlings! Welcome to 2014 another year of unimaginable blessings.. Thank God we made it congratulations to everyone who made it into 2014 God bless you for being here... WELCOME

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year darlings! Welcome to 2014 another year of unimaginable blessings.. Thank God we made it congratulations to everyone who made it into 2014 God bless you for being here... WELCOME

Thank You To All My Blog Readers

To all my readers thanks a million,i created this blog because i wanted to share my thoughts and knowledge with everyone when ever i should,and you took it upon yourself to read my articles when ever i share them and also send e-mails,it feels indeed wonderful to have amazing readers like you all through the year,may God take charge of every situation in your life and make your whole life as a human successful,blessed and awesome. Once again thanks for being here,let's do again in 2014«» wish you a prosperous new year! Sign:Queenbella

Monday, December 23, 2013

Queen Nwokoye Goes Back To School In New Movie "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL"

PRESSING FORWARD MOVIES presents this hilarious but educating flick "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL" this is another opportunity to watch the actress Queen Nwokoye drop some hilarious bombs all in the name of speaking english. Its fun and interesting,i personally recommend you grab of copy and laugh your a** out this christmas, after all this is a season of fun and more fun right? Yea have a happy Holidays!

Queen Nwokoye Goes Back To School In New Movie "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL"

PRESSING FORWARD MOVIES presents this hilarious but educating flick "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL" this is another opportunity to watch the actress Queen Nwokoye drop some hilarious bombs all in the name of speaking english. Its fun and interesting,i personally recommend you grab of copy and laugh your a** out this christmas, after all this is a season of fun and more fun right? Yea have a happy Holidays!

Queen Nwokoye Goes Back To School In New Movie "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL"

PRESSING FORWARD MOVIES presents this hilarious but educating flick "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL" this is another opportunity to watch the actress Queen Nwokoye drop some hilarious bombs all in the name of speaking english. Its fun and interesting,i personally recommend you grab of copy and laugh your a** out this christmas, after all this is a season of fun and more fun right? Yea have a happy Holidays!

Queen Nwokoye Goes Back To School In New Movie "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL"

PRESSING FORWARD MOVIES presents this hilarious but educating flick "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL" this is another opportunity to watch the actress Queen Nwokoye drop some hilarious bombs all in the name of speaking english. Its fun and interesting,i personally recommend you grab of copy and laugh your a** out this christmas, after all this is a season of fun and more fun right? Yea have a happy Holidays!

Queen Nwokoye Goes Back To School In New Movie "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL"

PRESSING FORWARD MOVIES presents this hilarious but educating flick "UGONMA THE SCHOOL GIRL" this is another opportunity to watch the actress Queen Nwokoye drop some hilarious bombs all in the name of speaking english. Its fun and interesting,i personally recommend you grab of copy and laugh your a** out this christmas, after all this is a season of fun and more fun right? Yea have a happy Holidays!

Sunday, December 22, 2013

7 Ways To Show Some Love To Your Spouse This Christmas!

1. Allow your spouse to do what he/she loves. *I know wives have clear way they want their husbands to dress (probably in a suit and a tie) and behave (may be no drinking) during this festive season. Some have gone further and scribbled down in their minds ten things he should not do this Christmas or else they part ways. On the other hand the husbands do not want to see their wives in the company of so and so or a husband does not want to see his wife dressed in a mini although she feels confident in one. Give her a break; allow her to be what she loves. Do not make any comment; just watch her express herself fully. This is free love. If you are a man do not draw unfounded conclusion when your girlfriend decides to visit a old college mate. Do not even try to find out what they did while together. Allow her to be who she is and do what she loves. This is a true way of showing love. 2. Allow your kids to visit who they love. *I know you have a discreet plan of who you will visit this festive season. These is very good and enjoy your time together. In addition, your daughter or son longs to visit a friend but you feel they shouldn’t. Please show love by allowing them to make a choice of who to visit and facilitate all their efforts to see their loved friend. If they want money for a gift and transport, please give them. If some of their friends who want to come and visit, allow them and again make sure you are there to help in preparations and cooking. This is the true way of showing love. 3. Limit blaming and complaining. *You may not be aware of this, but whenever you meet with your friends you start by complaining about this or that, it could be the government, about your parents, about your boss or even about the same friends. This complaining drives some people crazy, but since they love you, they refrain from telling you or else it will ruin your relationships. Some even go to an extent of avoiding you because they know what you will say next. This Christmas season, gives your wrongdoer a break. Limit or completely avoid complaining. This will create peace and love within you and your loved ones. 4. Allow your kids to be who they are. *Kids are amazing,They always do exactly opposite of what their parents want. Some parents feel intimidated and therefore result in punishing them or shouting at them. For once this year, allow your kids to be who they are. For at least one week, give them a leeway to exercise their freedom. Let them keep their hair unkempt until they see sense of having it nicely combed. Let them soil their clothes until they see sense of keeping them clean. This is a free gift for them and they will remember this one week of freedom for many years to come. 5. Kids give your parents peace of mind this festive season *It is good for kids to get a gift during Christmas. However, some parents cannot afford, and it is true they can’t afford. Instead, these parents are weighed down by the burden of the school fees they will pay in January. It is such a time that kids should understand and avoid demanding for gifts. This will give their parents peace of mind. On the other hand, parents will view kids as loving and appreciative. When the parents will get money, they will for sure remember and buy you a gift. 6. Compliment *Can you remember the last time you told your boss he is kind and loving? or told your parents thank you for their love? Take time and compliment your spouse for keeping the marriage together throughout the year. There were enough reasons (founded or unfounded) to say enough is enough. Take time to thank your children for making your life busy. There are many would wish to have a kid but they cannot. Take time and tell God thank you that you are alive. Take time and thank …think……and…you know who to thank. This will create a sense of gratitude and happiness in you and in the other person. A person might live to remember your sincere gratitude than an expensive gift. 7. Forgiveness *All the above 6 things, are ways of giving or showing love to another person. However, forgiveness has nothing tangible to show. But it will create profound relieve in your heart and mind. (No wonder many argue cancers are caused by holding resentment and grudges). Forgive the guy that dumped you. Forgive that person who owes you money and he does not want to pay. Forgive your spouse if he/she wronged you. Forgive your colleagues at work for falsely reporting to the supervisor. Forgive those who maligned your name in 2013 Forgive those who accused you falsely. Forgive the one who lied to you. Forgive the government for letting its people down. Forgive your kids for being disobedient. Forgive your boss for not showing emotions when you were sick and needed sick leave. Forgive your husband who did not help with house chores. Forgive your wife who never minds about your feelings and emotions. Forgive your………. Forgiveness will make your life come alive again. You will become yourself again. Sincerely,i want the very best for you this season,you must not have the whole foods in the world to be happy in a season like christmas but you have every reason to be joyful,hopeful and the best you can be. For QueenBella and Team i wish you a Fabulous christmas!

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Have A Very Merry Christmas- from Me

To everyone who's been here,i'm glad we made it thru..Wishing you a very Merry Christmas touched with wonder and filled with love.