Do You Know How Much God Loves You?

There is no greater truth in all the world — God Loves People! We read from the Word of God in John 3:16 the following precious words:

“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”

What a wonderful truth!!! The verse doesn't say that the great heart of God only loves Christians or religious people. The verse doesn't say that God only loves righteous people or churchgoers. The verse doesn't say that God only loves Bible-thumpers. The Word of God is clear that God loves “the world” (and that includes everyone). No matter who you are, God truly loves you.

“And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world.” —1st John 2:2

Jesus died on the cross for all humanity, because God loves the whole world. This means that God loves the murderer. This means that God loves the adulterer. This means that God loves the homosexual. This means that God loves the crooked politician and the corrupt banker. This means that God loves the vilest sinner and the worst criminal. This means God even loves you. This means that God loves the Pope. Yes, God loves people! God loves all people, of all faiths, and all backgrounds.

“God loves you. It doesn't make any difference who you are. You can't keep Him from loving you. Now you can get into a place where you won't experience the love of God. When you put up an umbrella of sin, the sunshine of God's love sure won't fall on you. But it's still there for you.”

I've learned over the years to view people as objects of God's love. If I start to think critical about someone, I'll catch myself and say to my self, “That's a man that God loves” or “That's a woman that Jesus died for.” Oh, listen my friend, we're all created by the same divine Creator, and God knows what He is doing, even though we oftentimes cannot understand why things are the way they are, and at times one's life may seem so messed up.

"God knows the things that would have happened, if the things that did happen, hadn't happened!"


“But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ [i.e., made us alive in Christ], (by grace ye are saved;) And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus: That in the ages to come he might show the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus. For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God.” —Ephesians 2:4-8

What a precious passage in the Scripture. I cannot stress the truth enough that God loves people—all shapes and sizes, all different temperaments and personalities, all varying levels of intelligence and character, every race, every tongue, every nation, every family, et cetera. God loves people!

Ways To Relieve Stress

Stress seems to play a major role in today's fast-paced society. Studies have shown that 70 percent of employed Americans suffer stress-related conditions including anxiety and insomnia. Overbearing workloads can leave us feeling like there aren't enough hours in the day to accomplish everything we need to. Unfortunately, stress can also cause major health problems such as headaches, backaches and increased blood pressure.

The ability to relax and rejuvenate promotes vivacity and liveliness. Boosting your immune system is an important part of feeling youthful and maintaining your health. Here are ten healthy ways to relieve stress and leave your body feeling relaxed and refreshed.

1. Take a Warm Bath - It's a proven fact that warm water relaxes your body muscles and rids your body of stiffness and sore joints. Immersing yourself in hot water before bedtime causes your body temperature to rise, which enhances your ability to fall asleep faster. Also, by adding Epsom Salts to your bath (which are made of the mineral magnesium sulfate - a sedative for the nervous system), your skin will absorb the magnesium sulfate which sedates the nervous system and relaxes muscles. Soft music and candlelight is always a nice touch, too.

2. Massage Therapy - Massage plays an important role in training the body how to relax and getting rid of muscle knots. If your significant other isn't willing to participate in a little massage therapy, there are plenty of spas where you can spend an hour or two pampering yourself. Some massage therapists even have hot tubs that they place you in prior to your massage to loosen up your muscles.

3. Yoga and Stretching - Yoga trains you to build up a natural response to stress and bring the relaxed state of mind into your everyday life. The slow movements and controlled positions of yoga improve muscle strength, flexibility, breathing, blood circulation and promote mental focus and calmness. Stretching also reduces tension and anxiety and slows down your heart rate.

4. Music - Whether you realize it or not, music plays a big part in our lives. How many times have you exercised and felt motivated by a fast-paced song on the radio? Now, if that song were switched to a Celine Dion ballad, you can bet you wouldn't be running as fast on that treadmill. Listening to relaxing music is a great method of reducing stress and relieving anxiety. The calm, soothing sounds will reduce your tension, blood pressure, and promote feelings of tranquility. Be aware of how you feel when you hear certain songs, and keep listening to the ones that produce a relaxing effect.

5. Exercise - Regular physical activity strengthens your muscles and releases endorphins, which reduce pain and induce euphoria, therefore improving your mood and mental concentration. Even if you dedicate fifteen minutes a day to dancing around your house or riding a bicycle around your neighborhood, you'll find yourself feeling less stressed. So, not only is exercise good for the body, but it's good for the mind, too.

6. Drink Tea - Both black and green teas contain an amino acid called L-theanine, which produces a sense of calmness and relaxation by releasing neurotransmitters (like serotonin and endorphins) in the brain.

7. Sleep - Getting enough sleep is crucial to your health and has a huge impact on your stress levels. Lack of sleep can leave you feeling cranky, absent-minded and you may have difficulty concentrating on everyday tasks. When you sleep, your body and immune system have time to rejuvenate. Aim to get at least 8 hours of sleep each night because sufficient sleep benefits alertness and memory.

8. Take a Vacation - I know, not all of us can afford to hop on a plane whenever we feel stressed, but that doesn't mean that we can't create a mini-vacation of our own that's affordable. Instead of wishing you could escape to a tropical island, try opting for a realistic vacation instead. For example, I live in Boston and when I can't find the time to get away, I usually spend the weekend in Cape Cod or Martha's Vineyard so it feels like a relaxing getaway. Try finding a relaxing yet fun spot near you that you can venture off to for the weekend for some peace and quiet.

9. Make a To-Do List - Sometimes, the burdens of everyday life can be a bit overwhelming at times. I usually find myself getting stressed when I have too much to do and not enough time to finish everything. Whenever this happens, I sit down and write out a to-do list of everything that I need to get accomplished. That way, I know I won't forget any tasks and as I begin to cross off each item one by one, my stress slowly begins to dwindle.

10. Read a Book - There's not many things that are more relaxing that sitting down and letting nothing else into your mind except for the words on the page of a good book. Reading is a way to escape any stress in your life, educate yourself and keep your mind active.

Role Of A Man In Marriage

Dear husband,Newly married? Or have been married? Really want to understand the role you should play in your marriage? Ok, let me take you on this journey *wink*

Ephesians 5:25-33
Love your wife:

After giving the divine guidelines for the husband’s leadership and the wife’s submission, Paul devotes the next nine verses to explain the husband’s duty to submit to his wife through his love for her

In fact, a man’s primary role in the marriage is to love his wife. Everything else stems from this love.

This love is likened to the love that Christ has for the church, and believers possess Christ’s own nature and Holy Spirit, thus husbands can love their wives with a measure of Christ’s own kind of love.

This love is manifested in many ways.

PROTECTOR:
1 Peter 3:7

As the stronger vessel, man has an obligation to protect the weaker vessel.

PROVIDER:
Genesis 2:15

Man was designed to work, even before the fall.

Genesis 3:17-19

It is man’s responsibility to see that the family is fed.

WILLING TO DIE FOR HER – SACRIFICIAL LOVE:

Christ loved the church by giving “Himself up for her.” Romans 5:7–8 tells us about the depth of Christ’s love for the church.

Husbands, don’t tell me about your wife’s problems that make it hard to love her—you’re not as far removed from your wife as God was from sinners, yet He loved you.

Your wife may be a sinner, but so are you. Don’t lose that perspective.

Men who explain away their difficult marriages by claiming they no longer love their wives are being disobedient to God’s command.

God-type love is different then the world’s love, the world loves with an object-oriented love.

What that means is that the love is based on some physical attribute, or personality, its based on things that are subject to change.

It tends to be cliquish and overly selective, and this type of attitude can even affect Christians.

James 2:1-4

But that love is necessarily fickle because the moment the characteristic that motivated the love disappears, or loses its appeal, the love disappears.

Many marriages fall apart simply because the relationship was founded on that kind of love.

If God were going to love anything on the basis of its innate appeal, it would not have been the world, it would not have been us. We are all like unclean things.

Isaiah 64:6

Because God gave His children the capacity to love as He loves, He can command His love from them.

That means love is a choice we make—it is an act of our will as well as our heart.

Husbands, Scripture is not commanding you to love your wife because she deserves it but to love her even if she doesn’t deserve it.

Divine love is an act of selfless sacrifice.

When you love in that way, you’ll do what is needed without counting the cost or analyzing the need’s merit.

And your love will continue to meet the need whether it is received or rejected, appreciated or resented.

Husbands, as long as you’re looking for what you can get out of marriage, you will never know what it means to love your wife as Christ loved the church.

Look instead for what you can give: Be willing to make personal sacrifices for your wife, considering her needs and interests before your own (Phil. 2:3–4).

PURIFYING LOVE: vv. 26-27

When you love someone, that person’s purity is your goal. You can’t love a person and at the same time want to defile them.

Christ’s great love for His church does not allow Him to be content with any sin—with any moral or spiritual impurity.

But He doesn’t simply condemn wrong in those He loves; He seeks to cleanse them from it.

Don’t tempt your wife to sin, Love wants only the best for the one it loves, and it cannot bear for a loved one to be corrupted or misled by anything evil or harmful.

Love always seeks to purify.

CARING LOVE: vv.28-29

When your body has needs, you meet them. Your wife also has needs, and you’re to meet them just as diligently.

The husband who loves his wife as Christ loves the church will no more do anything to harm her than he will harm his own flesh.

When your wife needs strength, give her strength. When she needs encouragement, give her that. Whatever she needs, you are obligated to supply as best you can.

Don’t forget: You’re her divinely ordained provider and protector, but should that responsibility ever overwhelm you, recall that God is your Provider and Protector. He will help you do all that He requires.

Always remember that a wife is a God-given treasure to be cared for and cherished.

Proverbs 18:22

Don’t be harsh or resentful to your wife or allow yourself to be preoccupied with her flaws. She, like you, is bound to have plenty of them.

Respond with patience and loving leadership instead of masculine pride or outrage.

UNBREAKABLE LOVE: v.31

For a husband to love his wife as Christ loves His church he must love her with an unbreakable love.

Genesis 2:24

God’s standard for marriage has not changed.

One great barrier to successful marriages is the failure of one or both spouses to “leave … father and mother.”

A new family begins with a marriage, and while the relationships between child and parents still exist, they are severed as far as authority and responsibilities are concerned.

You need to love and care for your parents, but you cannot let them control your lives now that you’re married.

As a new husband and wife, you are to leave your parents and “cleave” to—be cemented to—each other.

You break one set of ties and establish another set. And don’t forget the second one is more binding and permanent than the first.

All of man’s duties – provider, protector, leader, etc are wrapped up in the command to love his wife. So, ultimately, man’s duty in marriage is all of the things that true, Godly love entails.

The Godly and obedient husband will always place his wife’s needs before his own.

He will be a picture of Christ in her life, and will earn the submission that God has asked of the wife.

The sacredness of marriage motivated Paul to conclude, “Let [the husband] love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see to it that she respect her husband” (v. 33).

There is no more definitive statement of God’s ideal for marriage than that.

When Christian husbands and wives walk in the power of the Spirit, yield to His Word and His control, and are mutually submissive, blessing is the result.

Men, you have a choice. You can stand up and be the men that God has called you to be. By doing so you will be an example, a testimony, a blessing, and an encouragement to those around you.

You will instill the same attitude in your children, and your legacy will be a family that honors God.

Or, you can choose to ignore God’s plan, and live life as a weak and empty vessel, useless and spiritually dead.

You should never forget that, apart from obedience to God, your first responsibility is to your wife and children.

Your job is not your greatest priority, not your children’s college fund, not your savings account, your church isn’t even your greatest priority. It is your family.

Are you the man that God has called you to be?

If there is to be change in the church, change in society, it must start at home. And men, as the head of your family, the change must start with you first! You cannot demand of anyone else, what you are not willing to do.

The choice is yours

Signs She's Cheating On You

Something fishy is going on. For a while now, you’ve noticed some changes in your girlfriend’s behavior. She’s distant, busy and seems almost secretive. Is she cheating on you? Maybe. Don’t jump to any conclusions, but look for these warning signs so you can decide how to proceed.

Warning Level One
Warning Level One is often first indicators of cheating, but are just as often totally innocent. You don’t need to worry too much about any one of these but if you’re experiencing all of them…

Signs she’s cheating #1
She’s less affectionate
As unpleasant as it is to contemplate, she could be cheating because she’s lost interest, or she’s lost interest because she’s cheating. Either way, there’s no way she wants to be close to you. Disregard this sign if one or both of you have been ill recently.

Signs she’s cheating #2
She takes better care of herself
Now this could happen for many reasons, from wanting to impress a new lover or keeping a New Year’s or birthday resolution to just sick of being the “jeans and sweatshirt girl” at work. Don’t rely on this evidence alone.

Signs she’s cheating #3
She spends no time with your friends and family
Where once she was down for a night of hockey with the boys or having coffee with your folks, she now avoids these engagements as much as possible.

Signs she’s cheating #4
You’re fighting more
This isn’t necessarily a sign of cheating either, you two could both just be extra stressed. On the other hand, your lady might be trying to justify her two-timing behavior by lashing out at you, picking fights so she can feel like you’re in the wrong, too.

Warning Level Two
These clues are a little less easily explainable, and should cause you to pay a bit more attention to what she does.

Signs she’s cheating #5
She changes her schedule drastically
Since when does your girl have to work overtime every Saturday? Or go to the laundromat at 8 p.m. on Fridays? Or sign up for an early a.m. Pilates class when you know she hates morning traffic? Since she needed more excuses to get out of the apartment, that’s when. It’s not likely she’s doing it solo.

Signs she’s cheating #6
She starts using “I” not “We”
Somehow, all of a sudden, the two of you aren’t a unit anymore. She’s going out for dinner on her own, joining a book club, planning a cool mini-vaycay and buying new flatware. At one time, these would have been things you talked about and decided on together. You’re feelings don’t factor in anymore, because she has mentally (and physically) opted out of your partnership.

Signs she’s cheating #7
Her friends act weird around you

Allow me the generalization of claiming that women find total secrecy a difficult thing to maintain. If she’s being unfaithful, chances are, your girl has told at least one close friend or family member about it. They, in turn, may have spilled the proverbial beans, or at least feel badly for you. If you notice her friends or relatives avoiding your eyes or acting generally nervous and awkward, it could be a sign that they know something they can’t tell you... Hope this helps *wink*

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Hard-To-Miss Signs That He's In love With You

What's on your mind? Do you think your man is truly inlove with you? Ok here»»
look for the hard-to-miss signs that he’s in love with you.

Signs that he is in love with you: He treats you with respect:
When a man is in love with a woman, he respects her. He cares about the details of her life. He treats her well. If your guy values your opinions, compliments your character, celebrates your accomplishments, pays attention to details, and even accommodates your quirky habits — He stocks the fridge with Diet Coke even though he can’t stand the stuff, for example — you’ve got a keeper who’s falling fast and hard for you.

Signs that he is in love with you: You’re always on his mind:
Does he send you funny texts during the day? Do songs, signs and hilarious headlines remind him of you? Does he Google last night’s unresolved debate — “Which is healthier: ice cream or gelato?” — when he’s at work? When you become a very present part of his day even when you’re apart, he’s invested in the relationship.

Signs that he is in love with you: He compromises:
Love can soften the heart. Being right isn’t as important as doing right by the other person. When your beau starts to meet you in the middle on topics he’s typically stubborn about — Maybe he’s a movie snob suddenly willing to let you pick a flick he’d otherwise never watch — he’s leading with his heart instead of his head. Signs of selflessness are huge indicators that he’s in love.

Signs that he is in love with you: He touches you in public:
Most guys have no qualms about touching their girlfriends in private. With public displays of affection, however, they can be a little more hesitant. When your man puts his arm around you in public, he’s both proudly announcing to the world that you’re together and making a protective gesture. Another love gesture: when he starts offering the hugs and cuddles you crave, with no expectation of sex. He wants to serve you with physical touch, not use it just to get what he wants.

Signs that he is in love with you: He wants to take care of you:
Women often roll their eyes at men’s “fix it” instincts; and while he may not be able to fix every bad day, the fact that he tries only points to the fact that he deeply cares about you. He wants to make things better. He wants to provide for you, practically and emotionally. He wants to make you smile. When he puts in the effort to comfort and reassure you, he’s saying “I love you” in both word and deed.

Signs that he is in love with you: He wants you to love his family:
Does he want you to meet everyone who’s important to him? When he’s ready to introduce you to people who matter most — and is equally eager to meet your friends and family — he has no intentions of going anywhere. He’s proud to be with you and wants his family to fall in love with you, too.

Signs that he is in love with you: He’s not afraid to fight — or apologize:
Sometimes it takes a fight or two to understand just how strong a relationship is. A man in love is one who isn’t afraid of conflict — or apologies. Instead, he fights fair, respects you when things get rocky, listens to your perspective, hates to see you upset, and wants to resolve things well. “Love means never having to say you’re sorry” is the most inaccurate movie tagline ever. (Sorry, “Love Story.”)  Love means dropping the pride, admitting when you’re wrong and never being afraid to say you’re sorry.

Signs that he is in love with you: “We” has replaced “I”:
Listen to his word choices. When he starts using words like “we,” “us,” and “Team Awesome” — Each guy will have his own way to describe the unit you’ve become — he’s not thinking of himself as a single man anymore. You’re now part of his life. And he loves that.

Signs that he is in love with you: When he talks about the future, you’re in it:
Does he make plans for the future that include you? Did he invite you to his buddy’s wedding next fall? Does he joke about your future children together? When he’s got a future with you on his mind, he’s already decided that he has no intentions of letting you go.

Signs that he is in love with you: He says so:
If he says he loves you, believe him. A man in love can’t keep it to himself for long.
If he doesn't exhibit any of these or more sorry girl! you got the wrong feeling but he's not in love with you. Copy?

Benefits Of Fruit And Vegetable

Fruit and vegetables are an important part of your daily diet. They are naturally good and contain vitamins and minerals that can help to keep you healthy. Research shows they can also help protect against some diseases.

Vitamins and minerals
Fruits and vegetables contain many vitamins and minerals that are good for your health. These include vitamins A (beta-carotene), C and E, magnesium, zinc, phosphorous and folic acid. Research into folic acid shows that it may reduce blood levels of homocysteine, a substance that may be a risk factor for coronary heart disease.

Eat more fruit and vegetables for your health
Fruits and vegetables are low in fat, salt and sugar and provide a good source of dietary fibre. As part of a well-balanced, regular diet and a healthy active lifestyle, a high intake of fruit and vegetables can help:
Reduce obesity and maintain a healthy weight
Lower your cholesterol
Lower your blood pressure.
Protect against diseases
Vegetables and fruit contain phytochemicals, or ‘plant chemicals’. These biologically active substances can help to protect you from some diseases. Scientific research shows that if you regularly eat lots of fruit and vegetables, you have a lower risk of:
Type 2 diabetes
Stroke
Heart (cardiovascular) disease – when fruits and vegetables are eaten as food, not taken as supplements
Cancer – some forms of cancer, later in life
High blood pressure (hypertension).

Different fruits and vegetables contain different nutrients. I'll recommend that adults eat at least five kinds of vegetable and two kinds of fruit every day. Results from a national nutrition survey conducted by the Australian Government indicate that Australians of all ages do not eat enough vegetables and fruit.
Children have a smaller stomach capacity and higher energy needs. They will not be able to eat the same serving sizes as adults; however, they should be encouraged to eat a variety of fruits and vegetables and start good practices early in life. By eating well, your children will have the energy they need to play, concentrate better, learn, sleep better and build stronger teeth and bones. Building good habits in the early years can also provide the protection of a healthy diet throughout their lives.

5 Signs She's The Wrong Woman

1. She treats your pet(s) poorly.
She doesn’t have to be a dog or cat lover, but she should at least respect them as friends to you, just as she should respect your human friends. As “Man’s Best Friend,” your pet or dog was probably there for you long before the girlfriend entered the picture. If she has problems with your dog, she probably has problems with your friends as well. At some point, the discussion will come up: “Me or the dog?” The fact that she even will bring this point up is enough of a red flag to choose the dog because the next question she’ll ask you will inevitably be, “Me or your friends?”

If you do choose the girl over the dog, consider yourself officially neutered. Another good thing to remember is the way a woman cares for a pet or dog often simulates how she might treat your prospective children.



2. Sometimes, you just really hate her.
Sometimes all it takes is one little straw in a tornado to break through a brick. Suddenly, the little things she’s said and done all along bother you to the point where you can’t believe you are actually with this person. It could be a casual dinner outing where she talks down to your waiter as if he were invisible. Perhaps she treats people in the service industry so poorly that you get embarrassed any time you are out with her. If little things like this bother you, there could be more to these feelings of misgiving than simple irritation.

Maybe her beliefs and morals are just completely different than yours. While opposites attract, sometimes it’s backbone convictions and differences in being brought up that affect whether two people can make it work.

3. She doesn’t respect the rules of “Guys’ Night.”
You’re never allowed to do anything without a phone call from her or without you “checking in.” If she won’t let you hang out with your friends, then she obviously doesn’t trust you or respect your independence. You might be a part of a “couple,” but you are still a person, an individual who can do what he likes to do. If it’s cheating on said girlfriend, then that is on your shoulders.

However, anything other than cheating or criminal activity should be respected.



4. You still hold a torch for someone else.
If you enjoy your time with her, but still wish she was someone else (someone you used to be in love with), then you are definitely dating the wrong girl. And you shouldn’t wait another minute before letting this girl down gently and moving on. The worst thing you can do is lead this person on to the point where she thinks of your relationship as “serious” while you think of it as a holdover until the next one comes along (or the right one comes back).

5. She doesn’t abide by the rules in the following “car” scenario.
One simple trick will tell you whether she’s “the one” or not. All it takes is a car, two people, and one locked door. While automatic locks and car alarms might vary results of this test, it’s still a good litmus for a person’s worth. First, the man should open the passenger door for the woman, unlocking the door and helping her into the seat. Then, he should head over to his driver’s side door, fumbling with his keys to open his door. The man should struggle for a few seconds, whether it’s dropping his keys or losing track of which key unlocks the door (again, this test would work better on an older vehicle). If the woman unlocks the door for the man from the passenger side, she’s a keeper. If she sits there and plays with her cell phone, throw this one back.

Tolerating People

Tolerance is an important factor, a virtue that is much needed and desired in our day to day existence. Looking around us, we find many people who are unique, different or totally miles apart from us. To bear or survive with such people, approve or disapprove of their thinking and their gestures is something that is constantly related and is deeply associated with the word “tolerance”.

In our lives, we must have observed many people who we don’t appreciate much, who have stark differences to what we are and who we are. Mostly our difference lies with the collision of our moral and ethical values. Our standards of good and evil and our lack or difference of understanding with others is what gets bothersome. This is the root cause of our disparity with each other.The question is how to deal with such situations where you meet a person or you are put in a situation where your viewpoint seems poles apart from others. What exact should be our attitude at that particular time. Below we will focus on some of the very core points which need to be adjusted or added if want to survive in a happy environment.


The key to tolerance is learning to co-exist with each other. With a little bit of effort on our part of being patient we can live,laugh and share with each other.

CONTROL YOUR RESPONSE:
Whatever the different situation you have to go through or how irritated you might get, the very first thing you have to do is to watch your own self. Your reaction and response is important and mostly it is the reaction that will make the situation good or bad. This is the basic requirement and if you can master this, you might be able to handle everything well.

DISTINCTION BETWEEN TOLERANCE AND BAD BEHAVIOR:

Another foremost thing which must be taken care of is to learn establish the distinction between tolerance and a bad behavior. We must know where to set our line and where not to cross certain limit. True, a difference of opinion is always there, but we have to present our point of view in a way that it shouldn’t be conceived or termed as a bad attitude on our part. Just like being diplomatic that is often put through as “the ability to tell a person to go to hell in such a way that he actually looks forward to a trip”. We must recognize the need of this distinction.

BE CONSIDERATE:
We also have to be mindful of the fact that our opinions, habits and styles are different from each other. The religious and the cultural differences also count a lot. So before reacting to a certain person or a situation, we must take care of these facts, look and react at things with an open mind and a bit of consideration.

The Intolerance of Tolerance
The key of tolerance is to stay cool in every way. Always remember patience is a virtue and that is something which needs to be developed in ourselves. Also if we really want a moral reformation in others, we need to correct ourselves first. The attitude is something that really counts and a good behavior comes through patience. We must never let the patience slip away.

Learning to co-exist is the key to tolerance. With a little bit of effort, understanding and patience we can share, laugh and live together. To stay open minded towards the existing dis similarities makes you truly enjoy the essence of surviving with each other. It is all about your acceptance and your reaction towards others moral values and also not forgetting that tolerance is the necessary part of the new ethics.