Thursday, September 20, 2012

Reasons For Cheating

Cheating in relationship has become one of the least understood, but most written about, subjects of all time. Why are so many people breaking up? Why is cheating so rampant?
Presidents have had their spouses cheat on them
From relationship specialists to rocket scientists, humans have always wondered why a minister’s wife, a president’s wife or a king’s wife will cheat with the man who sells her charcoal. Men have also from time immemorial irrespective of their standing in society cheated with their house girls. Cheating is not the sole preserve of either men or women. Neither does it happen among humans alone. We are animals and like other animals we have needs other than foods that we feel must be satisfied.

Love is not everything
Love is not the only tie that binds men and women in relationships. Men may need companionship, prestige, babies, and of course lots of sex. Women may need companionship, prestige, babies, and perhaps sharing in their men’s success, including money. There is no way these needs can all be found in the same man or woman. Other animals know this and therefore never bind themselves to any single entity for the rest of their lives. The human animal fails to appreciate the differences that exist among individuals and therefore seeks to harvest these long time relationship pillars from the same individual, and here lie the seeds of disco

None is perfect
No single woman can be beautiful, intelligent, understanding, loving and caring all at once. A man who desires a pretty face, a wonderful brain, perfect understanding among other things must sure enough look elsewhere for love or sex or understand the little failings that abound in all of us.

There is no Mr. Right
No single man can be handsome, rich, and a great companion of all women at all times. A woman who desires that handsome face and body, lots of riches and ambition, great sex, love and care, must sure enough look for one or two of these aspects elsewhere if she can’t appreciate the same fact aforementioned. The tall handsome dude who isn’t a pauper may still be a violent man ready to try the Chuck Norris movie tricks on you, or worse still, threaten you with a machete or an axe everyday of your life. He may still be a bank robber under cover.
The only reason why people cheat, cheated and will keep cheating is because we humans are insatiable..

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