Love, as great as the feeling can be can slowly fade away for some reasons. If you suspect your man does not love you anymore, and you still love him, you are in a difficult situation. How you will you know if your promises of forever will last? Find out how to know if he is not in love with you anymore, and make up your mind on the next step towards your own happiness.
1. Spends less time with you:
Does he only spend little time with you? Does he spend more time with other people when you go out? One of the first red alert signals that your man does not love you anymore is the amount of time he spends with you. In the beginning he used to take a minute from his lunch break just to talk to you, now he says that he is too busy to see you. He rarely takes you out on a romantic date. He no longer makes any plans for your future together. He makes a lot of excuses just so that he doesn't have to be with you. Men when they realize that they do not feel affection for you anymore will try hard to find excuse to not be around you.
2. Communication dries up:
Does he call you to know how you are doing? Does he immediately pick up his phone and press the answer button when you call? Communication is a critical ingredient to build a great relationship. Before, he was sending you unlimited sweet text messages and calls you regularly, now he doesn’t even bother sending you a “good morning” text message. When you call him all you receive is his answering machine telling you call back later. If you text him you will have to endure waiting for at least day to receive a reply. If your guy changes his number, doesn’t take your phone call and cuts all means of communication, better start finding somebody else before he finds somebody first. He may love hanging out with his own friends and having a nice time. But if he cannot spend a few hours with you and does not really care about communication and being together then do not think that he is still in love with you unless one of you takes the initiative to come closer.
3. No affection:
Does he still look at you lovingly in your eyes? When was the last time he took you out on a weekend getaway? When was the last time you had steamy nights together? Love when it is lost in a relationship is the beginning of fallout. In the heavy days of courtship, he cannot bear to be apart from you, he wants to spend as much time together as possible, but now he doesn’t find it that fun anymore and thus beings making excuses. He avoids all attempts of intimacy from you. He doesn’t touch you anymore in a gentle way. The shining shimmering sparkle that once was present in his eyes was gone.
4. You are taken for granted:
When was the last time he gave you a compliment or appreciates something you have done? When was the last time he asked for your opinion or suggestion on something? When he doesn’t do these things anymore, you are probably taken for granted. He cannot remember specific dates and he forgets simple things about you - like your middle name, your birthday, and anniversaries. He does not give you amazing gifts and great surprises. If he ever breaks his promises then he maybe planning to break your heart too. Broken promises will eventually lead to a broken heart and end up with a broken relationship. The moment he taking good care of you, he does not love you anymore.
5. He has no respect for you:
Do you argue a lot? Does he physically hurt you when he gets in rage? How many times has he made you cry in the last month? Love should never feel like a rusted nail is forcibly driven into your heart. If he yells at you, hurts you, degrades you, belittles you, makes you cry, then he does not love you. If he lies to you, then the relationship is not worth salvaging anymore. When he loses respect for you, he wouldn’t think twice about yelling or hurting you even other people are around. Can you still call it love when he does not even respect you?
