One of the things that still leave me puzzled , is how two people who were so in love with each other and were excited at the thought of seeing each before they got married, can degenerate to the point where at the very least become bored with themselves and have to endure each other’s company later in marriage.”
“The human emotions although often described as fleeting are very strong.Kings have been known to abdicate thrones because of the intensity of their feelings for another, Generals have lost wars because they were “love sick” and Secret agents have been found to have divulged national secrets because they were in love”
An Emotional need is a craving that when not satisfied, leaves you with a feeling of unhappiness and frustration. ”
“When our most important emotional needs are being met by our partners there is the feeling of “in loveness” or we “fall in love.” When they are not met we “fall out of love.” At this time we are emotionally obsessed with each other.”
“”Daily responsibilities, chores, bills, children, irritating habits all begin to show up and these things begin to tip the partners into times of irritation, snapping and so on which begin to cause massive withdrawals in their love banks which leads them into the eventual feeling of falling “out of love.”
“This feeling of “in love-ness” can also be stimulated and maintained no matter how long the couple have been married for if they keep making love deposits into each other’s Love Banks or Tanks.”
“Since time and effort put in at the beginning of the relationship is what caused the romantic sparks to fly and be ignited in the first place, the same ingredients if carefully and deliberately applied can help recreate that romantic atmosphere again.”
“To rebuild this much desired romantic climate in marriage, couples need to schedule time alone with each other daily, where they give each other focused and undivided attention...”
“Women often resent having sex without conversation and affection first and men resent talking and being affectionate without any hope for sex and recreation.”
“Many parents were able to provide for their children’s physical needs but were not aware of the corresponding need to meet their children’s emotional needs.”
