Open Letter To All The single Ladies.

Dear single Ladies, I learnt a whole lot of you are eager to get attached or married,have you sat to ask yourselves how it really feels to be married or attached? Because you desperately need a ring on that finger and another man's last name so bad shouldn't make you sell your pride and respect come on! A man tells you "I want out" and you turn to say "please don't do this to me,we can work it out" ain't you playing stupid? Yes you are,so why? Because you want to be his "mrs" at the end of the day? Or you tell your supposed boyfriend "please make me your wife,come see my people" WTF! Oh please you should be smarter than that! What ever happened to those women who have their men kneel before them and say " please baby marry me and make me a fulfilled man" have they got two heads? Well if they have then you also should work out a second head well unless you're not human,probably less human. Ladies.. Where has the dignity gone? Have we given it in exchange for a piece of ring and another man's name? Wake up! Be classy! Let that man know you ain't that kinda girl who takes shit for free! Sleeping around reduces your dignity as a woman as well as begging, could you please put a stop to it? Ok, I figured most of we ladies need some tutorials,right girls? Ok this is what you need to know»Enjoy reading! 1. Respect is deserved and should be demanded. Always. 2. He should tell you how he feels. Without prompting. Without forcing. 3. If words aren’t his thing, he should show you. Without hesitation. Without need for interpretation. 4. He should care about your stuff. He shouldn’t tolerate it. He shouldn’t listen to your stories just to get a chance to tell his. He should legit care. 5. If he doesn’t put in the work at the beginning, he is unlikely to suddenly flip a switch and start doing it later. 6. How does he make you feel about yourself? If he tears down, instead of building you up, he’s not the guy for you. Or anyone else, really. 7. If he can’t decide between you and someone else, he just did. 8. The way he talks ABOUT you should be at least equal to the way he talks TO you. And they both should idle at just shy of gushing. 9. Pay attention to why he fights. He should fight because he feels that he’s been wronged, not just to prove he’s right. 10. Pay attention to how he fights. He should always fight with restraint. 11. He should NEVER call you a word that is sometimes referred to simply by its first letter. 12. He should look at you like you’re the last french fry and the drive-through just closed. 13. He should have a smile that is just for you. 14. Watch how he treats his family. 15. He should hold doors open. For you. For everyone. 16. Listen to how the people who know him best talk about him. 17. Because you asked should be reason enough. 18. Allowing you to feel unappreciated, even for a moment, should crush him. 19. He shouldn’t need to MAKE time for you. He should cherish GETTING to spend time with you. 20. Don’t ever, ever settle for a guy who isn’t off his ass in love with you. And willing to show it. Signed: QueenBella