So, you've been waiting for that special someone with whom you can make that real connection. Finally, the perfectly right one walks into your life. But, how do you know you are in love and not just infatuated? 1# Notice what happens when you spend time with them. You start smiling when you see them. You feel like you're flying when he/she holds your hand. You feel like you're in heaven when he/she kisses you. You feel happy when he's/she's around You feel happier just because they talk to you. You feel jealous every time they talk or sit down with someone of a gender they are attracted to, especially when they talk too long. You will think that that person likes him/her too. 2# Observe whether you find yourself thinking about them when they're not around. You want to know everything about them and their ways from all angles. You want to talk about them to your friends. You include them in your prayers. You smile every time you see his/her photo (or feel happier). 3# You miss them when they're not around. You're lonely without them, you can't appreciate the things around you even if you're in the best place in the world. Your world seems empty without them. You can't get them out of your mind. You keep wondering what they're doing right now. You smile every time you hear their name. You get that funny feeling in your stomach when you think about him or her. You keep having visions of kissing them, or hugging him or her, and holding hands. Think about the quality of the time you spend together. You spend as much time as possible with him/her, and don't want to be apart. 4# You talk to them incessantly, sharing your ideas and your enjoyable times and events together. You have understanding for one another and know when something is wrong; like something pressing on the mind of the other. You can take a trip together and wish it would never end. When you're with them you have no other doubts of who you want to be with or where you want to be, because having them around feels like perfection. You'll treasure a gift that he or she has given to you, even a very small gift. Figure out whether you think about a future with this person. 5# You want to introduce them to everyone and to show them what you have found and are developing together. You want to know his/her family. The names of his/her brothers and sisters, and parents. You think that your name and his/hers sounds perfect together. BELLA's NOTE: If you're in love, then you will notice them for their inner beauty not for how they look. If you like them, you will blush and feel embarrassed around them. If you really like them or love them, you will feel self-conscious, yet comfortable around them. If all you feel like you want from them is their body, then it may be lust not love. Do whatever is needed and best for this person, even if it's not what you want. Don't rush love! Find someone perfect for you. Don't force yourself to "love" somebody just because they're popular, or you think you like them Don't say you are in love if you aren't sure. If you are dating but haven't been dating for a long time, then don't assume you love them and will always love them. Making big decisions like getting married or losing your virginity or sacrificing hugely for them may seem like a good idea at the time, but you may later realize that you don't love the person and feel you've made a mistake. Take your time, but don't be pessimistic or you may lose out on actual love. If you feel like you love the person, you will automatically will define them and be on their sides when something wrong happens. You have to know if he/she checks you out. Be sure of your feelings darlings. ----Gracias Por Leer!