How to Earn a Girl's Trust Back After Lying

Earning a girl's trust back after lying won't be easy. Whether you lied about spending time with another girl, about cheating on her, or about something else entirely that truly hurt her feelings, it'll be hard to get your girl to trust you and to have faith in you again,yes i said hard, but not impossible. If you're willing to be honest with the girl, to give her time and space, and to avoid lying in the future, then you can slowly, but surely, begin to win the girl's trust back along with her heart. So how do you do it? Just follow these steps. (1) Apologize. If you want to earn a girl's trust back, the very first thing you should do is to apologize sincerely about lying and hurting her. Let her know that you understand how difficult you have made things for her, and that you deeply regret what you've done. (2) Be honest about why you lied. You don't have to go in too much graphic detail if you think it'll only hurt her more, but you should be honest about why you told the lie. Maybe you wanted to protect her, maybe you knew that the truth would hurt her, or maybe you were even embarrassed about the truth and wanted to cover it up. Whatever your reason, let her know why you did it (3) Promise it will never happen again -- and mean it. First, you have to make sure that it really won't happen again. If you doubt yourself or your future self and think you may make the same mistake, then spare the girl and work on fixing yourself before you get entangled with anyone else. If you don't think that you should be trusted, then why should anyone else disagree? Once you're certain that it won't happen again, then you should promise her that you're determined not to repeat your mistakes. (4) Promise you'll change. Tell her that you're going to work on becoming a better, more complete person who wouldn't lie to her. Be open about the fact that you know that this is a process and that you won't change overnight, but let her know that you're willing to try to change for her.

Forgiving Your Woman

When a woman is responsible for you smile and happiness how do you pay her back? Hitting her? Cheating on her? Or stealing her heart and never breaking it? Couple of times, guys tend to forget easily who made them smile so hard when they never expected to.. If a woman would give in so much to see you smile and at the end of the day you dump her like a piece of trash that hurt could return to you in some other way. Take my advice,loving a woman who loves you is one of the best feelings ever, don't throw her love to the dogs or right back in her face. Don't be in a haste to say its over,take your time ponder over it and be sure you won't be making a mistake by letting her go. No matter what she has done,there can be a way to make it work again, one tip to making it really work» think more about the positive side of her than the negative,if she's been there for you all the way and then falls for some mistake,please do think about all she's done and sacrificed for the relationship and marriage in that way you'd have the heart to forgive. Remember nobody is without sin.. Let love rule your world.. Gracis Por leer! -- QueenBella

Mistake Most Women Make

Most women desperately need men,why would a woman desperately need a man? Learn to be independent,let your feelings too be independent,fight your own battles and clean up your own mess. Mr right will find his way into your life and heart in due time. Most women enslave themselves to men out of desperation,they sell their rights and happiness all because they desperately need a man,so my question is why?? Wondering what ever happened to your dignity,respect and honor as a woman? Wonder no more,the simple answer is "DESPERATION" give yourself some respect, know when you're no longer needed and take a long walk before he suggests it,besides if you're what he wants he will always respect you despite the little normal conflicts but when he's abusive and disrespectful and feels/shows no remorse its obvious you're killing yourself for no reason,you know why? He will never appreciate your person,whether you bow down and worship him or not,a man who appreciates you will respect you,don't show yourself desperate about him,some other man is out there treating his woman as a queen must yours be different? NO so step up girl,let go and take a walk,if he wants you nothing will make him leave.. -Gracias Por leer! --QueenBella

Mistake Most Women Make

Most women desperately need men,why would a woman desperately need a man? Learn to be independent,let your feelings too be independent,fight your own battles and clean up your own mess. Mr right will find his way into your life and heart in due time. Most women enslave themselves to men out of desperation,they sell their rights and happiness all because they desperately need a man,so my question is why?? Wondering what ever happened to your dignity,respect and honor as a woman? Wonder no more,the simple answer is "DESPERATION" give yourself some respect, know when you're no longer needed and take a long walk before he suggests it,besides if you're what he wants he will always respect you despite the little normal conflicts but when he's abusive and disrespectful and feels/shows no remorse its obvious you're killing yourself for no reason,you know why? He will never appreciate your person,whether you bow down and worship him or not,a man who appreciates you will respect you,don't show yourself desperate about him,some other man is out there treating his woman as a queen must yours be different? NO so step up girl,let go and take a walk,if he wants you nothing will make him leave.. -Gracias Por leer! --QueenBella

Mistake Most Women Make

Most women desperately need men,why would a woman desperately need a man? Learn to be independent,let your feelings too be independent,fight your own battles and clean up your own mess. Mr right will find his way into your life and heart in due time. Most women enslave themselves to men out of desperation,they sell their rights and happiness all because they desperately need a man,so my question is why?? Wondering what ever happened to your dignity,respect and honor as a woman? Wonder no more,the simple answer is "DESPERATION" give yourself some respect, know when you're no longer needed and take a long walk before he suggests it,besides if you're what he wants he will always respect you despite the little normal conflicts but when he's abusive and disrespectful and feels/shows no remorse its obvious you're killing yourself for no reason,you know why? He will never appreciate your person,whether you bow down and worship him or not,a man who appreciates you will respect you,don't show yourself desperate about him,some other man is out there treating his woman as a queen must yours be different? NO so step up girl,let go and take a walk,if he wants you nothing will make him leave.. -Gracias Por leer! --QueenBella

Wanna Be A Good Kisser?

(1) Make sure your breath is minty fresh and clean. Naturally you practice good oral hygiene, but if you have any doubts about your breath, take a breath mint shortly before the kiss. Make sure to finish the mint or gum before you lock lips. (2) Approach the kiss with confidence. Try to kiss their cheek so they turn their head your way. Once you've chosen the right moment to kiss someone, there's no turning back, especially if it's your first time kissing that particular person. Be decisive and confident. If the person doesn't want the kiss, he or she will let you know, but until then, act as though you're a pro. (3) Lean in and tilt your head slightly. Leaning in signals that you want to kiss the person, and tilting your head prevents crushing your nose against the other person's. (4) Start slowly. Don't try to thrust your tongue in your partner's mouth right away. Simply press your lips against theirs. Close your eyes as you do so to heighten the intimacy and to avoid looking at the pores on your partner's nose. Imagine your eyes are being controlled by a dimmer switch. (5) Open your lips slightly. Once the kiss is accepted, try opening your lips slightly. If the other person follows suit, try slightly varying the openness of your lips (both more and less open) throughout the kiss. You may wish to explore the person's lips and tongue a bit with the tip of your tongue. There are no rules; just try to make your motions smooth. (6) Keep your arms busy. You seldom, maybe never, see a great kiss in which the participants just let their arms dangle at their sides. At the very least, embrace your partner and gently pull him or her to you. Please if you want to have a beautiful kiss avoid breath-killing foods such as garlic and onions.. Enjoy your kiss *wink*

Getting Married or Staying Married?

Some people just wanna get married to change their relationship status not minding a divorce after that,while some others wanna get married and stay in it.. well which do you prefer? And which is the best?

Ways To Make Your Woman Happy

Do you want to be the perfect guy for your girlfriend? Do you want to give your girlfriend every reason to believe that you're the Mr. Right she's been looking for, without changing yourself? If you treat your lady wonderfully, you'll get the same back from her. Isn't that what every guy wants?follow these steps»» (1) Show her affection. Girls want guys to show them affection because it tells her that you care about her, and that you're willing to show that love in a public way. It doesn't always have to be public but get used to the idea, because she wants other people to see how much you love her, so don't be afraid to kiss her or hold her hand in public. (2) Tell her you love her. Make sure you mean it. If you're not ready to go there yet, that's fine. But, be sure to switch that "I love you" for a really good "You know how special you are to me?" or a "I like you so much; I'm a really lucky guy." (3) Touch her regularly and on the spur of the moment. Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Make sure it's a respectful and gentle touch, and not one that's overly sexual or suggestive. (4) Put her first, yourself second. Put her needs in front of yours. This doesn't mean that you have to be whipped, or lose your backbone. It just means that, most of the time, you're willing to bend for her, even if it wasn't something you wanted to do. (5) Provide security. Again we think that the most important thing for a woman is that she feels financially secure. That's why you do your best to provide for her. That's awfully nice of you, but you may be barking up a wrong tree. What she really wants much more than "money and things" is emotional security. This means that she can count on you to always be there for her and that she can count on you to be her best friend. (6) Be a Good Listener. you listen to problems and look for solutions, you also listen to the point of the conversation. You have no patience to listen to a chronological unfolding of a story without knowing were it is going. As soon as your loved one tells us that she has a problem, you are thinking how to fix it. Wrong! Your woman is quite able most of the time to fix the problem herself. If she cannot she will ask you for help. You need to trust that. What she wants from you is to listen to her and acknowledge how she feels about it, because her feelings are the problem that she needs to communicate to you. (7) Remember women can feel differently about sex. When your woman does not want to have sex with you, you take it personally. Once you understand that woman's "warm-up time" is much longer than yours and that she needs to be forewarned so that she can anticipate it, things become much easier. It's not about you. Very often she just wants to be close to you, to snuggle and be cuddled. Of course, whenever that happens you think about sex. Hold your horses, not so fast! It DOES NOT mean that she wants sex. If you insist on it every time she comes close to you, she will start avoiding you. You scare her off. Take it easy, take your time. Once she gets into it, she WILL enjoy it as much, or maybe even more than you do, but patience is an operative word. (8) Admire her beauty. A woman asks a man: "Does this dress make me look fat?" Man: "No, your fat makes you look fat." Bad move. That's how you can talk to other man friends and not to a woman, because women are different species. They will never interpret it as a joke, or just take it as plain truth. Remember, it's all about feelings. Women want us to find them attractive. They want to be looked at and we, men want to look. Perfect match! She has a deep need to know that she is beautiful for YOU. When she asks you how she looks do not say, just fine. Cultural pressure to look beautiful is great and it can hardly be avoided. So, tell her often and honestly that she is beautiful. You do not have to use exactly that word, but there are so many others and other ways to say the same thing. Be creative. Come on man be romantic! *wink*

Ways To Make Your Man Happy

(1) Know when to back off. Many a wayward girlfriend assumes her affectionate attention is welcomed by her man until he asks for a little space. The problem with this theory is that when a man is forced to fight for his alone time, he can become jealously defensive of it and resent his girlfriend. Guys like to know their girls have lives of their own, so schedule time for yourself, away from him, with your girlfriends, etc. (2) On that note, be sure to remain your own person. It is vital in every relationship to not define yourself in terms of your significant other. Get a few hobbies. Better yet, join a club. Once again, girls with lives are almost always more attractive than those whose lives consist only of time with their boyfriends. (3) Convey yourself to your man. Instead of holding in your emotions and thoughts about your man's actions and words, just tell him calmly and not aggressively. He'll appreciate this MUCH more than he would if you kept your thoughts to yourself and used them against him later. Contrary to popular belief, men are not mind readers--so tell them what's going on! (4) Don't lie to your guy about where you are going, or what you are thinking of. If he asks you, he wants to know--so tell him. Use discretion (don't tell him you were thinking about that one thing your ex used to do in bed), but if you just brush it off with a light "nothing" or say something that's obviously a lie, you'll only drive him crazy, and not the good kind of crazy. (5) Finally, don't think about withholding sex. You should to surprise you man and keep things "alive" in the bedroom...keeping the chemistry alive will definitely keep your man happy! (6) Do not call him more than once a day if you don't have something important to discuss or talk about. I know, the phone begins to whisper to you after a while, telling you that he may be doing something he wants to talk to you about, but you must resist temptation. He needs to feel as though he isn't on a leash, that he can do things without informing you if he so chooses. Calling him on a daily basis establishes you as controlling, nosy, and, worst of all, clingy. REMEMBER:- When arguments occur, do not take an air of authority, superiority, or antagonism. Listen to his points and calmly, with no sign of your inner annoyance, make your rebuttal. Not only with this help to diminish squabbles, but he'll be more likely to concede future arguments to you, knowing that you won't rub his face in defeat. Always tell your man you love him,this will make him happy. Don't try to hug and kiss all over your man all the time. Some and most men find this annoying,hey need their space in many ways. Men do like it when their women look good. You don't have to do anything drastic; get a new hairstyle every now and then and look for his reaction, buy a dress if you know he likes them. Guys are oblivious to the obvious sometimes though, so don't take it to heart if he doesn't notice right away. Do not use cuddly nicknames when anyone else is in earshot, even strangers. I know he's your "pooky bear" when you're alone in your living room, but as far as the rest of the world is concerned call him by his name. Don't assume that you're welcome to hang around your man as he works, studies, or pursues his hobbies at home. Everyone needs to concentrate, and women are generally a negative force on a man's ability to focus. It doesn't. matter if you don't make a sound. They can smell you.

Dealing With a Difficult Mother in- Law

If your mother-in-law repeatedly hurts you either physically or emotionally, it can permanently damage your marriage. Here are some ways to deal with her that can protect yourself, your family and your future. (1) Understand the common problems. There are often many reasons why a mother-in-law may be difficult towards her child's new lover. She may feel less important to her child (or still see them as a child rather than someone's spouse). She may have difficulty standing behind someone else in their child's life. She simply may be a completely different person from you. Understanding the reasoning behind her behavior instead of taking it personally will make it easier to deal with. (2)Distance yourself physically. You don't need to move cross-country, but you also don't need to show up at every event. It's acceptable for your spouse to attend some family events without you. This should not be a common occurrence, however. You should not try to drive a wedge between your spouse and his family. It could also be a victory of sorts for that mother of his/hers - she gets to spend time with her child and avoid you completely. Even if it's easier, this will cause discord in your marriage eventually. (3)Recognize and avoid the triggers. Before coming in contact with the in-law, visualize the scenarios which always manage to get under your skin. What is it that is said or done that makes your blood boil? Once you determine those triggers (which tend to be the same emotionally, manifested in various ways), think about ways in which you can avoid them. (4)Think about your spouse and child. You don't want to say or do anything to harm your relationship with them. Do you need to try and break the tension? Bite your tongue? Sometimes you have to suck it up and behave nicely for the sake of someone else's happiness. (5)Express your feelings to your spouse. Let your husband (or wife) know that the way their mother treats you is hurtful. You are entitled to share these feelings with your spouse. Do not criticize her, remember this is his/her mother - but don't protect her either. You can say something like, "Honey, your mom may not mean to be hurtful, but she was tonight. In the future, if she says something like (give the example that hurt you), I would appreciate it if you would speak up for me." (6)Make your spouse understand that they must take the lead with their family. If your spouse will not handle his/her family, you will never solve this problem. Your spouse's mother has already demonstrated that she doesn't respect or recognize you. Nothing you say or do will change that. Unless your spouse is willing to take charge, outline clear boundaries over which the mother must not step, and be willing to follow up these statements with action and definitive consequences, you will have to face the fact that you will not be able to ever change this relationship. -Gracias Por Leer!

Want To Make Your Ex Jealous? Read»»

(1)Be happy. This is so important. Sure it's okay to be upset in the days or weeks after you break up; it might even seem strange if you weren't. But soon it'll be time to snap out of it and project your inner happiness, even if you aren't completely emotionally healed. Who knows? There's a good chance that trying to be happy will make you happy in the end. (2)Be civil. If you bump into your ex, it's okay to go over and talk to him. Show him that you're mature enough not to hold a grudge. More than anything, show him that he doesn't phase you anymore. (3)Start talking to other boys. You only need to be friends with them for it to bother your ex. Don't try and get yourself a new boyfriend until you're over your old one,just be friends with them but don't date or flirt with them (4)Focus on self-improvement. Did you have any annoying habits that your ex used to complain about? Whether it's being messy or biting your nails, think about breaking those habits and bringing out the new and improved you. If he sees that you've stopped doing all the things that bugged him once upon a time, it shows that you've made strides without him instead of with him. (5)Look good and feel good. If he liked you to dress in a certain way, try doing that more often when you have a feeling you might bump into him. If you're not happy with your figure then do something about it, get fit, do something nicer with your hair, choose more flattering clothing. When he sees you he'll be asking himself why on earth he left you. (6)If he sends you a text, leave it for a couple of days. If he's texted you, tried to call you or messaged you, then he's back in the picture trying to get your attention. So to keep the power in your hands rather than giving the power back to him, and ignore the message. for a couple of days. *wink*

What Does Music Affect You?

Oh heavens! Would someone agree with me when i say music is life? A food for the soul? Even our hearts have beats darlings,music just means a lot to me,it speaks to me in a way no one else understands. (1) In an extremely angry mood,music has the ability to calm me down (2) In a sad state,music elevates my mood (3) Its a source of inspiration (4) It gives you inner strength (5) It helps you through a boring time (6) It gives or brings memories Music is just wonderful pattern of sounds that work magic,listen to a good one though.

What Do Married Couples Do First In The Morning?

As a married couple,what do you do first in the morning? Kiss each other good morning, fix breakfast, pray,play?? If you're married let me know the first thing you did this morning, Send me an e-mail and let's relate! *wink*

What Do Married Couples Do First In The Morning?

As a married couple,what do you do first in the morning? Kiss each other good morning, fix breakfast, pray,play?? If you're married let me know the first thing you did this morning, Send me an e-mail and let's relate! *wink*

What's The Last Thing You Do Before Hitting Your Bed?

http://www.quotesbuddy.com/qb/01/3909/39091.jpgWhat's the last thing you do before hitting your bed? After a hard day's job,we get back home knackered but that doesn't mean we'll have to head straight to bed, i'm sure there are things we do before we finally say good night.. Yea? Ok,for me the last thing i do is -----»"PRAY" yea,i do that before i finally hit my bed hard *wink* So praying is the last thing i do every night,how about you?

What's The Last Thing You Do Before Hitting Your Bed?

http://www.quotesbuddy.com/qb/01/3909/39091.jpgWhat's the last thing you do before hitting your bed? After a hard day's job,we get back home knackered but that doesn't mean we'll have to head straight to bed, i'm sure there are things we do before we finally say good night.. Yea? Ok,for me the last thing i do is -----»"PRAY" yea,i do that before i finally hit my bed hard *wink* So praying is the last thing i do every night,how about you?

Hello Ladies! Going on a first date? Tips For You *wink*

Are you going on a first date? And need some tips to hold your head high and portray a classy picture of yourself on your first date? 1.Relax. Don’t put pressure on yourself to be witty, smart or alluring. Don’t get caught up in the version of yourself you wish you were. He wants to date the real you. 2. Dress smart. First impressions matter, yes, but so does comfort. Don’t wear heels to a picnic date, for example. Pick an outfit that makes you feel great, look great, doesn’t reveal too much and is age-appropriate. 3. Show respect. Show up on time, be polite to the waitstaff, and give your date your undivided attention. (Don’t worry. If you don’t hit it off, you don’t have to date him again. But while you’re on the date, show off your social etiquette skills.) 4. Turn off your phone. Your friends and Twitter followers are not invited on the date. 5. Let him lead. If he wants to pay, let him pay. (Note: If you offer to split the bill, be prepared to actually split the bill. Don’t play games.) Remember that he’s likely nervous and is trying to figure out first-date rules, too. You’ll have plenty of time in the future to figure out gender-role stuff if you develop a relationship. In the meantime, respect his wishes to lead. Let him follow up after the date, too. 6. Be decisive. Hemming and hawing all night “I don’t know, what do you think? What do you want to do? It’s your call.” isn’t attractive. If your date gives you options, pick one. 7. Be present. Show interest in your date and be an active listener. Don’t let it be all about you. (If you talk non-stop when you’re nervous, try to be aware of this and intentionally refocus the conversation on him.) 8. Address the elephant in the room. If something feels awkward, if you wish you could take back something you said, or if your mind just went blank and you can’t remember your mom’s name, speak up by acknowledging that your brain just failed you, you’ll be breaking the ice and making him more comfortable, too. 9. Establish boundaries. Be careful to not share too much on a first date. This isn’t an arranged marriage; you’ll have second and third dates to share more. Be clear about physical boundaries if he’s over-eager because sex on a first date is never ever a good idea. 10. Don’t drink too much. A glass of wine is fine, but try to get to know each other sober. You can. always drink on your honeymoon.

A Little Advice For Diabetic Patients

How many times do you take fruits in a week? Do you know fruits are good for you? For diabetic patients you don't need fruits like banana and all that sugary fruits because it has lots of natural sweetness which isn't too good for you. You can do Carrots and watermelons. Eat green vegetables and avoid starchy food with calories. If you must eat rice don't eat the regular rice everybody eats i'll advice to get "marshal rice or my skinny rice" its gluten free,helps lower cholesterol & high blood pressure and also a good source of Vitamin B1. (2) if you must take milk,take the skinned milk,i'll recommend "marvel skinned milk" and take less of milo,betterstill you take a very little quantity of ovaltine. (3)Work out or trek sometimes it helps burn out the sweet sweats. (4)Beans and fish is good (5)Eat cooked Unripe plantains (6)Eat coco yams and visit your doctor regularly, remember health is wealth. Have questions for me? Send me an Email.. Gracias Por Leer! -Queenbella!

"MALAYSIAN BABES" A Major Thriller From Kasmok Productions!

Is it just me? Or you too have noticed how super interesting our Nollywood movies are fast becoming, just talking about super interesting is another bombshell from Kasmok productions titled MALAYSIAN BABES which features Angela okorie,Ruth Eze, Ella Mendoza and all stars present. The story throws light on Nigeria babes who claim to be from Malaysia,parading and packaging themselves as Malaysian babes until one day,i guess we know the saying about "one day,one day monkey go go market ----------" Its a movie to see and learn from,it involves action,romance,love and emotional dramas,hmm.. We Girls will never cease to amaze the world,someone once said girls run the world,true/false? Pretty soon Nigerian girls will begin to pretend they are Indians and that's where you'd get to see "black indians". I call it get rich or die packaging, so our girls are obviously at the top of their game. Malaysian babes is a Must Watch! Kudos to the brain behind this one «OUT SOON» *anticipating*

What's The Best Way To Apologize To Your Partner

If you do something wrong to your partner, probably cheat on then and they caught you or some other bad thing that could lead to a break up,how would you apologize? Send someone to plead on your behalf,get the person a cool gift to say you're sorry,send a text,get on your knees or what? Let me know as usual,i know the best way and i'll let you in on that secret after now!

What's The Best Way To Apologize To Your Partner

If you do something wrong to your partner, probably cheat on then and they caught you or some other bad thing that could lead to a break up,how would you apologize? Send someone to plead on your behalf,get the person a cool gift to say you're sorry,send a text,get on your knees or what? Let me know as usual,i know the best way and i'll let you in on that secret after now!

What's The Best Way To Apologize To Your Partner

If you do something wrong to your partner, probably cheat on then and they caught you or some other bad thing that could lead to a break up,how would you apologize? Send someone to plead on your behalf,get the person a cool gift to say you're sorry,send a text,get on your knees or what? Let me know as usual,i know the best way and i'll let you in on that secret after now!

What's The Best Way To Apologize To Your Partner

If you do something wrong to your partner, probably cheat on then and they caught you or some other bad thing that could lead to a break up,how would you apologize? Send someone to plead on your behalf,get the person a cool gift to say you're sorry,send a text,get on your knees or what? Let me know as usual,i know the best way and i'll let you in on that secret after now!

Is Love Stupid?

Couple of times i hear people say things they did for love,some stories sound funny,stupid, wicked and weird but i just keep wondering is love suppose to be that way? Well let's share our stories,send me an e-mail telling me the things you've done for love and also tell me if love is stupid to you *wink*

Want To Know If Your Man Is Tired Of You? Read»»

1** He overloads at work. When a relationship seems to be heading south, guys often tend to take on more on the job to compensate; it gives his ego a boost since he’s likely upset that things with you are floundering. 2** He’s stops inviting you to hang with his friends. When you first became a twosome, he wanted his bros to meet you (and be jealous that he scored such a hot chick). But if he’s thinking you and he aren’t meant to be, he’ll start having more boys’ nights sans you so his pals know that you’re on the outs and will support him when the breakup backlash hits 3** He keeps convos neutral. Notice you’re discussing things like the news and the weather a lot more lately? These topics aren’t intimate, and they’re a sign he may be distancing himself to have less of a bond with you, so his feelings aren’t murky when he does the deed and it’ll make for a cleaner break for him. 4** He stops texting you the stupid little stuff. Guys usually text on a gut impulse,whatever they feel, when they feel it. When that stops, it means he doesn’t really feel the need to send you the nice little check-ins he once did just to say good-night or to let you know he’s thinking of you. 5** He begins to cut down the number of times he speaks with you,for instance you call him 6 times in a day and he takes it just twice,the rest times he ignores the call and doesn't call you back,just know he feels sick speaking with you and your call could be disturbing him so slow down.

How Do You Feel When You See Your Ex?

Do you feel good? Shy? Angry or sad? Why not share that with us! We'll be waiting for your mail..